Apart from attracting weirdos which unfortunately we all seem to attract at one time or another... I think by being a single parent you are more likely to attract a kind hearted guy who will have considered the issues of bringing up another's child as their own and is genuine enough to want what you have to offer.
You're attractive, seem quite steady and dependable and offer a family environment to a guy who should be grateful and intelligent enough to realise how lucky he is! Be patient and smile because I'm sure your Mr Right is following his path right now and it's one that's destined to cross with yours when the time is right for you all.
The thought of sunshine, warm winters and year round sunbathing has had me thinking of moving abroad quite often, but then I look at the snow-capped mountains that surround me, I breath the fresh air and marvel at the deer as they go about their lives and I find myself re-thinking... The colour of my grass is green enough!
Would I move to be nearer a partner? Yes! Certainly! but only after a very long time of getting to know each other and the day would have to come where I would be certain that I was doing the right thing. My work, friends and environment are my life and to uproot, and risk losing my security and way of life would take a very amazing woman indeed!
er.... if there's a very amazing woman reading this right now and your climate is as nice as your personality then may I suggest you send me a flower immediately!!
I'm quite new to CS but luckily not so new to life! I read this thread with interest and the thing that has stood out beyond all else is the fact that a week ago you were 'besotted' by a guy who didn't seem to give a damn but yet a week later are pinning on your hopes on a new relationship already?
I rarely become besotted and even rarer for me to fall in love but when I do either it does take me months, if not years to fully get over it to a point when I'm free to feel again.
I wonder if you're not looking for a relationship to feel happy or content? It's something I have done a few times myself until I finally learnt that true happiness comes from within... a partner, big house or money can be lost in an instant and along with it goes the emotional security/happiness that we relied on rather than fall in love with the very person that you'll definitely be spending the rest of your life with... yourself!
RE: new to this site what is the im in a bubble
IM = Instant MessagingWelcome to CC