How about if you are honest about your intentions and character even if possibly self serving and showing your imperfections then you fall under the good category while if you like get a little wild and naughty then you fall under the bad category as either way it's all good!
Sure can see why so many out there are single but that's not always a bad thing. Having said that, in my opinion, woman on most dating sites go for the most physically attractive and all the more so if they themselves are physically attractive. That's part of what constitutes a player; they have the looks which puts them in demand and hence all the opportunities to play! We of the male species tend to be guided very much by physical attractions and if we really don't appear to demonstrate that very aspect of being physically appealing then we will often be over looked or only appeal to those of less appeal to one extent or another.
RE: Are u a good person or not ?
How about if you are honest about your intentions and character even if possibly self serving and showing your imperfections then you fall under the good category while if you like get a little wild and naughty then you fall under the bad category as either way it's all good!