In today's society, in the environment we live in money plays a big part in our lives. And the parent being adverts, tv, radio, celebrity, government is influential. So yes when money breaks down, being the materlistic world we live in, most relationships do suffer, the mind gets programmed to think a certain way.
Doctors and/or volunteers who go to third world countries to help the sick and diseased, not for payment. This is one of the many examples of what I believe love is. Love to me is a selfless act. If we go into a relationship for our own needs, that being money to survive then no I don't think that is love. Its just survival.
Another point, there are people at war (not the psychos) but the ones risking their lives fighting for our freedoms so we can live comfortably, chat on forums, go on holidays, build a family to fulfil our own needs. Isn't what they are doing a selfless act? ANd would we consider doing this ourselves or do we have our own needs to consider?
The truth. It's the same as someone who discriminates against race, religion, creed, weight, looks I'm afraid because they feel disgusted low within themselves or/and make them look undervalued in society - to me there isn't a difference. It's to do with power, image, how they want to look in public, someone they can show their family without feeling embarrassed - initially not about the person. Women and men alike.
Ask yourself this, would you pick any women or women of particular look(s)? It's not right but that is the way of the world. People have small minds but can't see it within themselves what they do instead is watch the bad news, read the newspaper, listen to gossip from neighbourhood and friends and say that is the bad guy not me.
It seems you fell for her online which was a mistake. Speak to her first then meet her in a public place yes. There are positives to meeting online but it does not beat face-to-face contact. You need to see the face, body language before making a decision. My point is a person can type a sentence but the eyes, body language can tell you something different. Don't fall into that trap, you have so learn from it and if you fall for it again the same way then you have a problem.
You also got to feel sorry for the person who went through that. Ok you had a bad experience, we all experience them in our lives, but yourself mind way of thinking in her shoes and you'll realise that she is quite sick. Its time to move on fella its just another bad experience in your life.
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RE: Do u believe that money is a matter for a healthy relation?
In today's society, in the environment we live in money plays a big part in our lives. And the parent being adverts, tv, radio, celebrity, government is influential. So yes when money breaks down, being the materlistic world we live in, most relationships do suffer, the mind gets programmed to think a certain way.Doctors and/or volunteers who go to third world countries to help the sick and diseased, not for payment. This is one of the many examples of what I believe love is. Love to me is a selfless act. If we go into a relationship for our own needs, that being money to survive then no I don't think that is love. Its just survival.
Another point, there are people at war (not the psychos) but the ones risking their lives fighting for our freedoms so we can live comfortably, chat on forums, go on holidays, build a family to fulfil our own needs. Isn't what they are doing a selfless act? ANd would we consider doing this ourselves or do we have our own needs to consider?