It's the internet ...it's easier for people with social inequities to thrive here. It really is their domain. For the rest of us who use dating web sites in their intended context it's going to be a regular ol' game of grabass.
Wether you choose to follow what any perticular religion suggests on relationships and how to make them work or biology is up to you. Either way it still comes down to learning how and being willing to be that other persons companion. They are counting on you to be their mate. If something becomes more important than that it's over.
RE: I just wanted to see how many from North Carolina that are posting on the forums.
hello and goodbye ...leaving the site. its been real and its been fun but not real fun