Do you know me? Do I know you?

Do you know me? Do I know you?

Yes, we know each other indeed. How difficult, if not impossible, it is to find yourself in somebody else's heart and mind! This is our aim on this Earth. But the question is how can we succeed? We can succeed ONLY if we consciously and continuously struggle against the wild beasts, our vices-faults and failings-and especially against that monster, called narcissus, which does not allow us to love even one person. But this war may become the pure and substantial love for freedom; to be free of those vices and clean our heart, to make space in it for the other person, for the whole of humanity.

This kind of love, of course, does help us to love our self, however never for ourselves, but for the other; for our friends, for our enemies, for our parents (nowadays our attitude torward our parents is well-known), for our brothers and sisters, for our neighbours, for the strangers, for the faraway, for the whole humanity, whatever their colour, their culture, their religion-if they have one-whether they are good or bad people.

Then, only then, will our spouse, if s/he knows the human's aim and is willing to fight with us-and never against us- will find in our heart, in our mind, in our soul and in our inner self, ample and comfortable room to live there happily and thankfully.

I want you, I like you, I need you, I love you in order for you to love fighting in this bloodless and most hard war, never against me or against anybody else, but against my inner self's scarcity of merits. All in all we can win-NEVER ALONE-in this war ONLY with the help of our Lord-God.

This is the reason that it is rather impossible for me to find the lady with the ability to understand my feelings as if they were her own and help me in this hard and painful war. She must be brave and willing to connect with all the above and trust me to be her very last companion, in order to learn how to be kinder, more polite, responsible, honest, frank; how to help each other against evils and vices, how to gain merits; how to be affectionate to each other, to the whole of humanity; and to learn how to love God; how to be good, understanding and loving persons, then we can live together, as a husband and a wife, but as one human.