Thanks, Zirk. It does help with my profile self esteem, but I still feel like it's a little bare-bones.

I think that works better for women than men, though. There's typically a lot more guys than girls on these sites and it's almost imperative for us to stand out and be interesting. From what I understand so far it's not unusual for women to have a few suitors in their inbox on a regular basis, but it's not the case for most guys

Of course, so far it hasn't been an effective strategy to spam every female account out there with "HEY I WANT YOUR SKIN YOU SHOULD MATE WITH ME!!!" either