About me and who I'm looking for

About me: I am a fun-loving, hard-working, educator of Chinese university students. I try to give them everything they need to be successful. I have a web site at BeltandRoadDatabase.com and am an expert on the Belt and Road Initiative of China. I have written several unprofitable books at Amazon.com (put my name in the box). But I don't write to make money; I write because i enjoy it. I love the beach, film, music, good food, good company, and a lively conversation.

I'm looking for: Someone who doesn't put me fourth or fifth in their agenda. Several women put their children, jobs, parents, relatives, friends, and hobbies before the person they are trying to socialize with; that really doesnt work for me. I can stand one or two things ahead of me on the agenda, but not several. You have to have a sense of humor, or I will not stay with you for more than a day or two. My job is very important to me, and I am upfront about going back to China after three weeks. Who knows, you may want to tag along after three weeks.