About me and who I'm looking for

About me: I am a lovely, attractive, kind, woman with a pleasant demeanour. I am a widow. I love laughing and I have a gorgeous sense of humour. I am sincere and very honest. I love life and the life I am living! I really dont have any hangups.
I live a life of contentment with my two young adult kids - but I do miss male company!
I am a Cooking Instructor and a writer - I write about life around me and current affairs.
I am sociable and lighthearted, I dont like sarcasm and cruelty. I hate hurting anyone's feeling like I wont hurt anyone elses! I love sport, cricket - soccer - rugby. And I started playing golf! Music is my passion and I love dancing...

I'm looking for: An honest single man. Good looking and intelligent. Who can laugh and chat easily with a sense of humour as well. Who is happy watching cricket or can play a bit of golf. Someone local perhaps? That can take me out for coffee or dinner? I love reading and the movies. But my passion is music! I want honesty as well, please. But no sarcasm! I like kind people who wont be cruel. I want someone who will like the things I do, laugh at the things I laugh at and have a passion for life like I have...
And please - no under 45 if you dont mind?