Hi Hayley 1st of all I like to commend you on your up front personality. However, Ms. Hayley let the man get to know you 1st than once you see he likes you than slowly introduce him to your child. Also you mentioned that the man you are looking for will need to love his child as if it was one of his. That may be necessary to be unsed. You certainly should mention you have a very young child. Placing your child in the photo with you may be too much of a shock and or the child may be the thing that attracts the man and not necessarily not you. Take some caution into that. A good man will accept you than accept your child. 1st thing 1st. Good luck Hayley. Dovina