coconutberg: Exploring the depths together
My Details
- I am: 42 yr-old man seeking woman, 18-99
- Located in: Batumi, Ajaria, Georgia, Middle East
- Last online: Online over 1 month
- Height: 5' 10" (178 cm)
- Body Type: Average
- Hair Color: Dark Brown
- Eye Color: Brown
- Ethnicity: White/Caucasian
- Education: Bachelors Degree
- Religion: Spiritual but not religious
- Occupation: Writer / Journalist
- Income: Less than $25,000
- Smokes: Never
- Drinks: Rarely
- Marital Status: Never Married
- Has kids: No
- Wants kids: Probably Not
- Sign:
Sagittarius
More About Me
Well, I've written quite a long profile that I hope you will read below, but what's really left after all is said, and what has any real meaning, I feel, is the meeting.
the meeting of the eyes, the meeting of the hearts.
without concepts or ideas, without thinking that we already know, without the fears and all the junk that we've been fed since childhood.
just the meeting of two naked souls, without their theories and images (of self and other), without trying to prove anything.
having the courage to be completely open and honest.
I feel that without this commitment to total honesty and openness, it will be very hard to meet each other in a really intimate and meaningful way.
and one other request before you dive into the profile - slow down mama! i know it's a mayhem on this site with endless profiles clamoring for attention, but please do try to breath while going through this.
also - please don't let location be an obstacle. i am location independent. i've lived in eight different countries already (and visited about forty) on four different continents, so feel free to contact me wherever you are.. :)
ok, so having said all that, here's my profile:
I FEEL THAT OUR DEEPEST 'MISSION' HERE IS TO FIND THE VOICE OF THE HEART,
THE VOICE OF OPENNESS, TENDERNESS, AND INCREDIBLE SENSITIVITY THAT LIVES IN US.
THE VOICE THAT PERHAPS WE ARE NOT SURE THAT THE WORLD CAN TAKE BECAUSE IT IS SO INCREDIBLY BEAUTIFUL AND TENDER.
AND LET THE WORLD HEAR THAT VOICE.
EVEN IF IT'S THE ONE WORD WE EVER UTTER.???
I want to bring forth this authenticity and sensitivity in others. to see people touch their deepest heart and live from that place. I believe the world will be completely different if we all lived from that place.
More About my Match
you have read/heard ‘the power of now’ and especially chapter 8, enlightened relationships, and are deeply interested in having this kind of a relationship. where everything is allowed, where we help realize each other's essence instead of being caught in the drama (but please do read/listen to this chapter, it is expressed much much better there)
you are ready to be completely honest and open.
you've been told (usually in a disapproving tone) that you're too sensitive.
you have gone beyond the phase of ego games.
you care
you posses an intelligent and sophisticated mind
but
that mind does not posses you
you haven't been completely bulldozed and imprisoned by the enormous pressures of this life, by the mad structures we have created, by the roles we play.
you haven't become cynical and bitter by the profoundly unconscious society that we must live in.
you haven't completely identified with your definition and titles.
you have stepped out of the program, or at least are aware of it and don't follow the herd blindly.
you still have that spark in your eye. you still know deep inside what's really important (clue: it's not what the mind/society say is important),
you are still in contact with the simplicity of life and can see the garden of eden right in front of you because you are not focusing all your attention on the ideas of future, security and goals, or on evaluating and comparing everything to an idea of how it should be (idea that has been programmed into us).
you know (or have a sense of) who you really are, underneath all the layers, underneath all the stories.
you are IN this messy world, but not OF this world
you don't wear high heels (extremely off-putting :)
you are intelligent enough to see through all the millions of words written in this profile, realize the vanity of this personality, and yet are sensitive enough to receive something else that tries to break through between the lines.
Occupation
writing
Match Details
- Seeking: Woman | 18-99 yrs
- Located: Anywhere
- For: Long-term Dating
- Body Type: Skinny, Slim/Slender, Modelesque, Average, Proportional
- Ethnicity: White/Caucasian, Asian, Native American, Pacific Islander, Mixed Race
- Religion: Atheist, Agnostic, Buddhist/Taoist, New Age, Non-religious, Spiritual but not religious, Other Religion
- Smokes: Never, Socially, Trying To Quit
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