Fern1311: “A snow goose need not bathe to make herself white. Neither need I do anything but be myself”.
My Details
- I am: 80 yr-old woman seeking man, 67-76
- Located in: Geelong, Victoria, Australia, Oceania
- Last online: Online over 1 month
- Height: 5' 5" (165 cm)
- Body Type: Average
- Hair Color: Medium Brown
- Eye Color: Hazel
- Ethnicity: White/Caucasian
- Education: Some College
- Religion: Spiritual but not religious
- Occupation: Retired
- Income: ---
- Smokes: Never
- Drinks: Socially
- Marital Status: Divorced
- Has kids: Yes, they don't live with me
- Wants kids: No, but love my grand kids
- Sign:
Scorpio
More About Me
I am simple/complicated, loving/fearful, happy/sad, playful/serious, adult/childish, a deep thinker/lighthearted etc..etc.. etc.. A person of dualities... as with a lot of things (& people) in life ... a dichotomy. It's called 'being human'. Open, honest & truthful - the hardest virtues to give and receive.
Four essentials I long for in a partner:
. Spiritual Harmony
. Mental Affinity
. Emotional Safety
. Physical Passion
'The Invitation'
It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.
I believe that life is full of paradoxes, that human nature has a duality that can be like two sides of the coin .. on one hand we want commitment, on the other we want our freedom, we need our own 'space' but we want to be close, we have expectations of a partner, but don't want them to have expectations of us. Everything would be so very simple if we were 'lone' creatures, but we are human and need to 'connect', have love and give love.
I like sharing my heart and my desire - to 'positively' transform peoples lives' Truth is beauty, beauty is Truth. Love my independence, having choice. Adore my family, love spending time with them and grandchildren.
Give & take relationship based on Honesty, trust, warmth, compassion and down-to-earth values - I equate happiness with intimacy, sharing and a comfortable compatible lifestyle.
Oh, one more thing...I am a believer in chemistry of mind as well as the chemistry of attraction - after all, the mind is where everything happens. We all want to give and receive love with the right person. If you would like to chat further, please send a message.
More About my Match
Someone who looks after themselves in mind, body & spirit (so he would definitely not be a smoker) & hopefully taller than myself (5'8 upwards). A true friend who can be 'authentic' and 'real'. I would hope that there would be a 'spark', as chemistry is very important. Someone who is thoughtful, funny, kind, passionate, sensuous, romantic, generous of spirit, a good communicator, and spontaneous. Someone who is happy to be in my company no matter what we are doing. A man who is not afraid to communicate, is kind, tolerant, patient, loyal and who enjoys philosophical discussion, is secure & grounded in the knowledge of who he is. In other words, someone consciously & spiritually aware, & respects the individuality of others. Not 'clingy' or possessive, but secure in his own skin.
Occupation
Engineering Admin/Reception. Retired now.
Match Details
- Seeking: Man | 67-76 yrs
- Located: Near Me
- For: Long-term Dating
- Height: 5' 9" (175 cm) to 6' 0" (183 cm)
- Body Type: Average
- Ethnicity: White/Caucasian
- Smokes: Never
- Drinks: Socially
- Marital Status: Divorced
- Has kids: No | Yes, they don't live with me
- Wants kids: No, been there, done that | No, but love my grand kids
Posts made by Fern1311
To Report Abuse: If this profile or the behavior of the member is inappropriate, click here to Report Abuse »