iltonjay: Search for my other half
My Details
- I am: 71 yr-old man seeking woman, 46-67
- Located in: Allentown, Pennsylvania, USA
- Last online: Online over 1 month
- Height: 5' 11" (180 cm)
- Body Type: Average
- Hair Color: Gray
- Eye Color: Hazel
- Ethnicity: White/Caucasian
- Education: Bachelors Degree
- Religion: Christian/Catholic
- Occupation: Executive/Management
- Income: ---
- Smokes: Never
- Drinks: Socially
- Marital Status: Widowed
- Has kids: No
- Wants kids: No, but welcome yours
- Sign:
Sagittarius
More About Me
I believe that relationships must be built on a foundation of respect and trust. What do I respect in a woman? I respect a woman that has arrived at a place in life where she loves herself and forgives herself. To me, compassion for others means knowing that in any situation or dealing with anyone, that person ultimately just wants what every human being wants - unconditional love and acceptance. I believe strongly that regardless of our life circumstances, we have a choice each day to create happiness, as opposed to pursue happiness. I respect kindness and compassion in a woman.
In our adult lives, those coping mechanisms no longer serve and we need to examine those experiences – welcome them back in with love and acceptance – and integrate them into our beings. Get over it and Let it go are truly not effective strategies in dealing with loss to achieve joyfulness and fulfillment. Self-awareness and a practice of self-love and self-forgiveness are essential to this integration. Spiritual belief is good; a spiritual practice is far better. We have all experienced loss, and for some, truly trying and painful life experiences. And most of us coped with them the best we could, given the tools we had at the time.
More About my Match
I need a loving and caring lady who will understand me, love and care for me she will definitely get that in return. I don't want a woman to be with me to walk behind me or ahead of me, but to walk alongside of me, holding my hand as we face the challenges during the journey of life. someone to spend all my life and as well grow old with. That's all I want.
Occupation
Works in the oil field as drilling engineer
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