oneloyalone: Building familiarity, one encounter at a time.
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- I am: 41 yr-old man seeking woman, 30-99
- Located in: Central, Majjistral, Malta, Western Europe
- Last online: Online Today
- Height: 5' 9" (175 cm)
- Body Type: Proportional
- Hair Color: Bald/Shaved
- Eye Color: Brown
- Ethnicity: Pacific Islander
- Education: Some College
- Religion: Non-religious
- Occupation: Administrative/Secretarial
- Income: ---
- Smokes: Never
- Drinks: Occasionally
- Marital Status: Divorced
- Has kids: No
- Wants kids: Someday
- Sign:
Pisces
More About Me
You are born. You grow up. You get older.
With some luck you build meaningful connections. If not then you end up places... like here.
Experiences will teach you different things and sometimes we learn the wrong lessons.To build walls to keep people out.To build cages to keep people in. Both can lead to missed opportunities - and both have better alternatives. Being clear about one's wants and desires can build bridges for those you do want to interact with while signaling others to keep their distance. Building trust with a person and being compatible with them works better than any cage physical or mental. People do come and go - and that is how life is. We all learn. Me included.
Now. Things about me.
I am self-sufficient. I temporarily (short-to-medium-term) share my place with non-family.
I like the internet. A lot. But I am 'not' glued to a mobile phone screen. Trying to avoid TikTok. I think that platform is bad for mental health. YouTube is not much better.
I like games online. Play more games than I probably should.
I like food and I like simple cooking.I also like to play with sweet and savory notes.
In terms of my limits, those would be smoking and dirt/germs/bugs, mostly.
I spend most of my time indoors. It is cooler and more private. Can enjoy cafeteria hopping, eateries, or the occasional outing.
I also enjoy good opportunities to talk. Can be about the weather. Can be about your day. Can be about what somebody said. It can also be about things you want to talk about but generally cannot.
Why am I here? I want to build new connections.To share experiences. Maybe build a relationship.
More About my Match
One thing that I have learned is that there is no ideal match to be found. Compatibilities are a bonus.
Are you older or (within reason) younger? Are you thicker or thinner? Richer or poorer? More or less educated? Better or worse dressed or looking? So many similar questions more.
Long term is a goal - but that begins with short term. What a relationship looks like and the level of commitment will come down to both persons involved.
Occupation
Jobs are for stability. They are what you accept doing to enable the rest of your life. In my case this is a day job. It pays the bills and it offers enough stability. But I will not look back at my job and say that it is what my life is about.
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