Wanting2Care: Sharing Tranquility, Caring & Equality
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- I am: 73 yr-old man seeking woman, 60-75
- Located in: Acton, California, USA
- Last online: Online over 1 month
- Height: 6' 0" (183 cm)
- Body Type: Slim/Slender
- Hair Color: Medium Brown
- Eye Color: Hazel
- Ethnicity: White/Caucasian
- Education: PhD/Post Doctoral
- Religion: Agnostic
- Occupation: Medical/Dental
- Income: ---
- Smokes: Never
- Drinks: Never
- Marital Status: Divorced
- Has kids: Yes, they are over 18
- Wants kids: No, and seeking same
- Sign:
Taurus
More About Me
I'm a well-educated professional who cares about people. I love dogs but am allergic to cats. I keep myself healthy/fit/trim & appreciate the same in my special friend. I appreciate a woman whose waist to height ratio isn't larger than mine (32"/72"=.44). A legitimate, consistent effort to make the most of one’s assets has more value than prioritizing any particular attributes. I'm especially not a devotee of bigger is better or artificial enhancements. After I retire in 2023, I plan to continue my agricultural interests, volunteering & completing the finish work on my self-designed/built home/farm, but I’d appreciate having someone special in my life with whom I’d feel comfortable & enjoy sharing.
We can soothe & nurture each other. We can explore our interests & find things we’ll enjoy sharing together. I’m introverted so tend to connect better with other introverts. We enjoy tranquility & nature. Both of us will focus on what we bring to the relationship (rather than entitlements), never seek more than we give & choose to be active equal participants in all areas so we can create something special.
Let’s both feel safe, secure & special; prioritizing respectful caring & openly educating each other without pushing one’s agenda on the other with ‘shoulds or shouldn’ts,’ criticism, nagging or yelling.
No empty promises. I'm not what most women seek, but I know the value of what I do offer. My modest income isn’t what most women expect (I'm comfortable living a simple life, without any interest in seeking financial support from anyone). No cartilage in my knee limits some physical activity, though I still maintain my farm by myself & love hiking in nature. I have a wide range of interests (ie communication; little theater; diy projects; nature & our environment; discoveries; a special connection). I'm respectful and supportive of differences, never wishing you to alter your life, filled with what you’ve discovered works for you, in order to conform to mine.
More About my Match
Seeking a woman who would appreciate having a special friend. Women are commonly more likely to seek a provider of a lifestyle than a partner, or have let themselves go to pot while still expecting their ideal. I’ve given up seeking a partner, as I’ve found most women don’t appreciate my simple country living lifestyle, but that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t enjoy having a special friend to connect with regularly. Friendship is the foundation upon which anything two people choose to create together develops. By respecting each other’s life without expecting the other to change, we can enjoy sharing quality time together.
It’s important for both of us to feel safe enough to share clear, open, honest communication. Assumptions have no place in healthy relationships, other than creatively initiating pleasant surprises, though hopefully those are educated assumptions. Having to guess the meaning of a person’s words or actions either reveals the sender of the message doesn’t trust or is playing a game. Neither of those options interests me, so I back away from people who aren’t willing to be specific.
I enjoy being helpful, when my help is appreciated and not taken for granted. I appreciate balance between playfulness and responsibility (someone who enjoys giving and receiving affection, in case we choose to take that path, and is comfortable living within her means). I appreciate subtleties in all areas & don’t like feeling overwhelmed by extremes of any kind. I make the most of and fully enjoy what exists in a relationship, rather than dwell on what could be. Though people say opposites attract, I find similarities provide more stability over time. We get high on nature and a special connection, not escaping to substances.
You live within a 40 minute drive from my home, unless we're extremely similar & compatible. Comment on what I've written if you want a response (what you like & what you don't). I'm not into people who send the same superficial greeting to everyone.
Ethnicity
We didn't choose our ethnicity. I'm not drawn to those who use ethnicity or anything else to legitimize being insensitive &/or disrespectful to others. No one is better or more entitled than others.
Education
No matter how much I've learned, I'm always curious and eager to learn more.
Religion
I'm respectful of other beliefs (as long as those beliefs are also respectful of other respectful beliefs).
Occupation
Self-employed
Match Details
- Seeking: Woman | 60-75 yrs
- Located: Near Me
- For: Long-term Dating
- Height: 5' 1" (155 cm) to 5' 10" (178 cm)
- Body Type: Skinny, Slim/Slender, Fit/Athletic, Toned & Firm, Modelesque, Average, Disabled
- Smokes: Never
- Drinks: Never, Rarely, Occasionally, Socially, Gave it up
- Marital Status: Never Married, Divorced, Widowed, Separated
- Wants kids: No Way | Not Sure | Probably Not | No, and seeking same | No, but welcome yours | No, been there, done that | No, but love my grand kids
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