WENDY010: Don't ask silly questions like "Are you real"
My Details
- I am: 40 yr-old woman seeking man, 50-99
- Located in: Westlake, Louisiana, USA
- Last online: Online over 1 month
- Height: 5' 8" (173 cm)
- Body Type: Average
- Hair Color: Black
- Eye Color: Brown
- Ethnicity: White/Caucasian
- Education: Masters Degree
- Religion: Christian/Other
- Occupation: Real Estate / Insurance
- Income: ---
- Smokes: Never
- Drinks: Occasionally
- Marital Status: Separated
- Has kids: Yes, they live with me
- Wants kids: Not Sure
- Sign:
Leo
More About Me
Love is a choice. It's as simple as that.
When I say this, people often misunderstand me and respond with "Yes, you have to choose to love someone again" (ie. after becoming estranged, or whatever the particular case under discussion may be). But that is not what I mean.
You do not choose to love. You choose to set someone else's survival, needs, happiness and comfort above your own, and the CHOICE ITSELF is the love.
(Please note that my treatment of love in this post is limited to loving other people, not so much things, though the basic principles may apply to both.)
Emotions are fickle things. They rise and fall, ebb and flow, subject to the whims of your biochemistry, the vagaries of your hormones, and influenced even by what you had for breakfast on a particular day. And if a love like that is going to have to be the basis for something as crucial as marriage and the family unit, then our civilisation is doomed.
Yet, luckily, this is not the case. Repeat after me: Love is NOT an emotion.
Really. Love is a choice, and as such it is ultimately rooted in exactly the domain that people, for whatever reasons, always want to dissociate it from: Reason. Logic. Rationality.
More About my Match
People like having us together, as a couple, as company (even more I think than us as a singles haha)
Occupation
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