whereforeartthou: The Invitation, by Oriah Mountain Dreamer

Selfie taken 2021 while still living in my converted van during Covid
Selfie taken 2021 while still living in my converted van during Covid
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My Details

  • I am: 79 yr-old man seeking woman, 55-78
  • Located in: Durham, Durham, England, UK, Western Europe
  • Last online: Online over 1 month
  • Height: 5' 6"  (168 cm)
  • Body Type: Average
  • Hair Color: Bald/Shaved
  • Eye Color: Green
  • Ethnicity: White/Caucasian
  • Education: Some College
  • Religion: Spiritual but not religious
  • Occupation: Entrepreneurial / Start-up
  • Income: Less than $25,000
  • Smokes: Never
  • Drinks: Socially
  • Marital Status: Divorced
  • Has kids: Yes, they are far away
  • Wants kids: No, but welcome yours
  • Sign: Capricorn Capricorn Men in England

More About Me

Having spent the last year in altering and improving my own small terraced house 8 miles west of Durham, and being positively resigned to single status, I would like, however, to meet up with others who, like myself, had hoped for a country reflecting Jeremy Corbyn's views on peace and cooperation rather than the nightmare we find ourselves living under, to walk, listen, talk, enjoy the benefits of a free bus pass, events, nature, etc.

In June 2014 I sold my house in France and went backpacking in South East Asia, Australia, Turkey, Spain, Cyprus, Holland ... now I am back in UK and want to try again to find ...a friend first all who hopefully will become much more. ...

Who am I! ... ... painfully honest, totally loyal, fascinated and often bemused by anything and everything, people especially. Open to new ideas or new thinking on old ideas. Enjoy most of the arts especially live music but theatre, art galleries, old buildings, reading (I don't have a television) photography, cooking, making and repairing things (I don't do materialism) nature and the countryside are all joyfully appreciated and especially conversations that get past "where do you come from ...".

I walk or cycle almost every day for pleasure and keeping fit, follow current affairs, travelled a lot during my misspent youth, went to Africa as a Volunteer with my young family for two years in the 80's, see the solution rather than the problem, tactile, affectionate, sincere, self aware, thoughtful, complex and far from perfect ...!

I am not looking for an instant full on relationship, I want to find a friend who I can trust, share and laugh with and then ... ? A very good platonic friend of mine from Croatia described me as "the last of the old fashioned English gentlemen",.... she meant it as a joke but I took it as a compliment!

More About my Match

Honesty, compassion, wit, thoughtfulness, an interest in the world in all it's facets, see compromise as a strength rather than a weakness, ability to see the funny side of life, not self obsessed, values silence as much as conversation, someone who writes more than 'Hi' in a message contact! and of course, that ever elusive 'chemistry'... I'm beginning to wonder if that's like looking for Atlantis, i.e. one has read about it, but as yet, it hasn't been found. Is it necessary, should we be looking for other things, it's not part of arranged marriages and yet they appear to be as successful or not as anyone else's. Perhaps the most important thing in a relationship 'at our age' is.... "do you know where I've put my reading glasses" ... and .... being able to say ..."why don't we ...!! For the right woman I would relocate just about anywhere.

Ethnicity

World citizen!

Occupation

Retired from paid employment

Match Details

  • Seeking: Woman | 55-78 yrs
  • Located: Within 100 miles of Durham, England, UK
  • For: Long-term Dating
  • Height: 5' 0"  (152 cm) to 5' 7"  (170 cm)
  • Body Type: Slim/Slender, Toned & Firm, Average
  • Smokes: Never
  • Drinks: Socially
  • Has kids: Yes, they are far away
  • Wants kids: No, but welcome yours

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