are some people just ment to be alone ? (5)

Jan 11, 2011 9:08 PM CST are some people just ment to be alone ?
kagetora
kagetorakagetoracaldwell, Idaho USA1 Threads 1 Posts
lol ive been in 30 failed relation ships im just wondering if anyone is doing as bad as i am
Feb 2, 2011 3:43 PM CST are some people just ment to be alone ?
megadocious
megadociousmegadociousBoise, Idaho USA1 Posts
30? I find that hard to believe with how young you are. I have been in enough failed relationships that i know it's hard. it's an experience and you learn something from every experience. you have your whole life ahead of you to figure out relationship stuff. live a little first.
Jul 12, 2011 3:39 PM CST are some people just ment to be alone ?
F4rgiven1
F4rgiven1F4rgiven1nampa, Idaho USA1 Posts
yeah well i dont even remember how many relationships ive been in. all i know is all of them failed. and they all came to me.if anyone is destand to be alone its me.help
Jul 19, 2011 10:08 AM CST are some people just ment to be alone ?
OraFca
OraFcaOraFcaKooskia, Idaho USA18 Posts
Hey, The answer to that is perhaps in the effort we make to completely surrender our will and intellect to God who is the One who can teach us Love. Finally accepted, after SEVERAL offers, my first etherbyte date. A very handsome, catholic, kind, lovely gentleman, many qualities. But... 1. he was not Healed of his two life's divorces. 2. very worldly values by which I was judged and it has taken a lifetime but I am determined to rise above my insecure nature so as to not have a mate that belittles me to secure his whatever. 3. Then he still wants another date. 4. are you chuckling/identifying yet?
Trust, Healing, Obedience, Humble-Docile , stuff which make for a Blessedness and I guess what is EQUALLY YOKED is something only each one of us can discover, be fully cognizant of, and Be Patient that when we Trust our hunger and desire to God our Father, He is Not Ignoring us.
Blessings,
Fca
Aug 7, 2011 1:10 AM CST are some people just ment to be alone ?
unclebill
unclebillunclebillSun Valley in Summer, Idaho USA4 Posts
Well, you are almost there: However, Unconditioned Love, is like unconditioned hair. The more you condition, the more refreshing and full it feels.
Companionship is that state of being friends. It is a closeness or familiarity, a true fellowship among people who for some reason have connected. It is the word that comes to mind when you hear the words life-long partners.

People describe companionship is many ways-a cozy feeling, a nice full feeling after a pleasant meal with family or friends, or that easy rhythm you fall into with the familiar. In a relationship, though, companionship would seem to be the basis for two people wanting to remain together, yet many are torn between the importance of companionship verse romantic or passionate love.

Companionship is by far the more important, one might argue. Passion is fleeting, or can take place without the aid of a single emotion other than a desire for each other. It might last a night or continue for months, but the only time attention is paid in any great effort is while the passion is taking place. By contrast, people who offer companionship put into the relationship their effort, concern and time. It goes deep between the two, lasting beyond hardship or cooled passion or the ordinariness of life.
Companionship/passion has been written about throughout the ages. Passion ignites and is volatile verses the lasting stability of a true companion. Most cultures see them both as important but play different roles at different points in a lifetime.
Personally, i think it's between two individuals, patience, trust and yes "God loving Lust".
Enjoy your bologna sandwich, and don't forget the mayonnaise and tomato. (If you like salt and pepper, feel free)=0)
OraFca: Hey, The answer to that is perhaps in the effort we make to completely surrender our will and intellect to God who is the One who can teach us Love. Finally accepted, after SEVERAL offers, my first etherbyte date. A very handsome, catholic, kind, lovely gentleman, many qualities. But... 1. he was not Healed of his two life's divorces. 2. very worldly values by which I was judged and it has taken a lifetime but I am determined to rise above my insecure nature so as to not have a mate that belittles me to secure his whatever. 3. Then he still wants another date. 4. are you chuckling/identifying yet?
Trust, Healing, Obedience, Humble-Docile , stuff which make for a Blessedness and I guess what is EQUALLY YOKED is something only each one of us can discover, be fully cognizant of, and Be Patient that when we Trust our hunger and desire to God our Father, He is Not Ignoring us.
Blessings,
Fca
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