Everyone goes through tough times in their lives,some people don't know how to handle it while others overcome obstacles easier,still others just need that boost that will help them. I have always thought of myself as a person that can overcome anything,but just recently I've learned that I was wrong. I have encountered a situation that has crumbled my confidence and has brought me down to a level in my life that I never believed could ever happen,it has made me realize no matter how strong willed you are we always end up needing a helping hand at some point in our lives. To everyone out there please cherish the good times and appriciate the things that you have cause you never know when the tough times will arrive.
A lot of people tend to place their happiness in someone else's hands without realizing that true happiness lies within ourselves,sure it's great to share with someone else but the fact of the matter is no one else controls your feelings. To find true happiness is to be real with oneself. The hardest thing to do is to look in the mirror and face all your flaws and deal with the real issues inside which intern manifests itself as our unhappiness it makes us do things we won't normally do and put up with things we normally would not put up with,but if we confront our fears and deal with the things we don't want to deal with then we'll be one step closer to true happiness.
I don't want to be rude,but everyone on this site is always talking about how they're not judgemental and how they want to find friends and just basically socialize. The truth of the matter is that 90% of the people on here do judge others by their looks and because of this are missing out on good friends. The fact of the matter is you can't look for love because you'll never find it. Love is not something you plan or make happen it's something that just happens usually when you least expect it,and from the most uncommon place or person. People don't be afraid to make new friends no matter where they are or where they come from or what they look like,don't be so close minded that you let love and life pass you by.
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