Unfortunately, how men handle divorce is not always reasonable or nice. If the subject of divorce hasn't come up before, your announcement that you're leaving may take him totally by surprise (even if your marriage has been miserable for years). Upon hearing the news, some men react with stony silence, others leave the house to think, many ask why, and still others will get nasty and vindictive.
The first three reactions are fairly common and easy to handle, but the angry spouse is a different story. If you think that your husband will have the tendency to fly off the handle when you tell him that you want a divorce
If you love something,let it go.if it comes back to you.its yours forever.if it dosent,then it was never meant to be..
POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE
Personality:
1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
3. Don't over do; keep your limits
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Dream more while you are awake
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
Community:
15. Call your family often
16. Each day give something good to others
17. Forgive everyone for everything
18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
19. Try to make at least three people smile each day
20. What other people think of you is none of your business
21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.
Life:
22. Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.
23. GOD heals everything
24. Do the right things
25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
27. The best is yet to come
28. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it
30. If you know GOD you will always be happy. So, be happy.
While you practice all of the above, share this knowledge with the people you love, people you school with,
people you play with, people you work with and people you live with.
Not only will it enrich YOUR life, but also that of those around you.
POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE
Personality:
1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
3. Don't over do; keep your limits
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Dream more while you are awake
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
A real good looking man, does'nt count how many girls he had in his life but of how many times he resist girls for the woman he really loves.
Go for someone who makes you smile
Because it takes only a smile to make a
Dark day seem bright. it takes only a
Minute to get a crush on someone, an
Hour to like someone, and a day to love
Someone – but it takes a lifetime to
Forget someone………
It hurts to love someone and not be loved
In return, but what is more
Painful is to never have the courage to left…
That person know how you feel.
Don’t go for looks, they can deceive,
Don’t go for wealth, even that fades
Away…..
There's always a little truth behind every "just kidding"….
A little knowledge behind every "I don't know"….
A little emotion behind every "I don't care"….
And of course
A little pain behind every "it's ok”….
The difference between COMPLETE & FINISH...
People say there is no difference between
COMPLETE & FINISH...
But there is!
When you marry the right one, you are COMPLETE .....
And when you marry the wrong one, you are FINISHED .....
And when the "right one" catches you with the "wrong one",
you are .....
COMPLETELY FINISHED
It hurts to love someone and not be loved
In return, but what is more
Painful is to never have the courage to left…
That person know how you feel.
Don’t go for looks, they can deceive,
Don’t go for wealth, even that fades
Away…..
no matter how rich you are,no matter how powerful you are, no matter how influential or how accomplished u made its uselee then if you are selfish enough coz success is sweetend if u shared it with others.....
If a girl is in Love, her parents will ask ‘who is that idiot?’
If a boy is in Love, his parents will ask ‘Idiot who is that girl?’
Misconception:
No matter whomever in love, boys are always idiots
Proposed theory:
Boys are normal before love, but become idiots after they fall in love
Concluded theory:
Girls always love Idiots....
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