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A Friend

A friend is someone who will walk the long way when you don't want to hop the fence

No distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of those who are thoroughly persuaded of each other's

Though miles may lie between us, we're never far apart, for friendship doesn't count the miles, it's measured by the heart

A true friend walks in when the whole world walks out

Like the sunshine in the morning, may this brighten your day, and remind you that you're thought of in a very warm way

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Becca has been heard from

Just talked to becca on Skype and she asked that this message be passed on to all her friends here on the blog.

"I am home well at my sisters, everything is good minus a boob and 7 lymph nodes. Really tired right now, Please tell all the bloggers at CS I said hello, I will start Chemo in about 3 weeks as soon as the drain comes out, 4 weeks of chemo and 36 radiation treatments"

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Note from Livin

Just a quick note from livin_the_dream

“Things did not go to plan Friday,, I was sent back home,, I have to go for a MRI on tuesday,, more bloods,, and I am rebooked in for the surgery the morning of the 14th,, I go back in the 13th,,

The actual procedure depends on the outcome on Tuesday,, they are worried about the cyst,, they need to take it out whole,, so my bikini days may come to an end,, perhaps a tankini in readiness for the long summer days,,

I was a little upset,, to have to wait again,, but I suppose its for the best,, they need too take it all first time,, I don't want to go thru this again,,”

Please keep Livin in your thoughts and prayers and I will try and keep you up dated as she lets me know how the test come out.
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Thank you for encourging and praying for both Becca and Livin. as they go through their surgery and recovery.
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A friend in need of encouragement

Last night Becca1963 told us of her impending cancer surgery, I have the sad news to tell you that another of our friends; livin_the_dream, is also going in for cancer surgery tomorrow morning (Friday) and ask that you have her and Becca in your prayers, as the surgery, treatment and recovery will be long and arduous. Tonight will be long for Livin and Becca, please join me in giving encouragement, and solace.
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Life

When life starts to get a little to fast for you, take the unbeaten path. Its a little rougher but you can slow down and take a deep breath and notice the beautifull things around you.

How would you slow down and enjoy life?

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Stress Management

A young lady confidently walked around the room while leading and explaining stress management to an audience with a raised glass of water.

Everyone knew she was going to ask the ultimate question, 'half empty or half full?'

She fooled them all ... "How heavy is this glass of water?" she inquired with a smile.

Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.

She replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, that's not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my right arm. If I hold it for a day, you'll have to call an ambulance. In each case it's the same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes."

She continued, "and that's the way it is with stress. If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later, as the burden becomes increasingly heavy, we won't be able to carry on."

"As with the glass of water, you have to put it down for a while and rest before holding it again. When we're refreshed, we can carry on with the burden - holding stress longer and better each time practiced.

So, as early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down. Don't carry them through the evening and into the night... Pick them up tomorrow.

1 * Accept the fact that some days you're the pigeon, and some days you're the statue!

2 * Always keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them.

3 * Always read stuff that will make you look good if you die in the middle of it.

4 * Drive carefully... It's not only cars that can be recalled by their Maker..

5 * If you can't be kind, at least have the decency to be vague

6 * If you lend someone $20 and never see that person again, it was probably worth it.

7 * It may be that your sole purpose in life is simply to serve as a warning to others.

8 * Never buy a car you can't push.

9 * Never put both feet in your mouth at the same time, because then you won't have a leg to stand on........like some politicians!

10 * Nobody cares if you can't dance well. Just get up and dance.

11 * Since it's the early worm that gets eaten by the bird, sleep late.

12 * The second mouse gets the cheese.

13 * When everything's coming your way, you're in the wrong lane.

14 * Birthdays are good for you. The more you have, the longer you live.

15 * Some mistakes are too much fun to make only once

16 * We could learn a lot from crayons. Some are sharp, some are pretty and some are dull. Some have weird names and all are different colors, but they all have to live in the same box

17 * A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour.

18 * Have an awesome day and know that someone has thought about you today.
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These kids are smart! (and definitely funny)

Copied from another site, enjoy

1. HOW DO YOU DECIDE WHOM TO MARRY? (written by kids)

You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like, if you like sports, she should like it that you like sports, and she should keep the chips and dip coming.
-- Alan, age 10

No person really decides before they grow up who they're going to marry. God decides it all way before, and you get to find out later who you're stuck with.
-- Kristen, age 10

2. WHAT IS THE RIGHT AGE TO GET MARRIED?

Twenty-three is the best age because you know the person FOREVER by then.
-- Camille, age 10

3. HOW CAN A STRANGER TELL IF TWO PEOPLE ARE MARRIED?

You might have to guess, based on whether they seem to be yelling at the same kids.
-- Derrick, age 8

4. WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR MOM AND DAD HAVE IN COMMON?

Both don't want any more kids.
-- Lori, age 8

5. WHAT DO MOST PEOPLE DO ON A DATE?

Dates are for having fun, and people should use them to get to know each other. Even boys have something to say if you listen long enough.
-- Lynnette, age 8(isn't she a treasure)

On the first date, they just tell each other lies and that usually gets them interested enough to go for a second date.
-- Martin, age 10

6. WHEN IS IT OKAY TO KISS SOMEONE?

When they're rich.
-- Pam, age 7

The law says you have to be eighteen, so I wouldn't want to mess with that.
- - Curt, age 7


The rule goes like this: If you kiss someone, then you should marry them and have kids with them. It's the right thing to do.
- - Howard, age 8

7. IS IT BETTER TO BE SINGLE OR MARRIED?

It's better for girls to be single but not for boys. Boys need someone to clean up after them.
-- Anita, age 9 (bless you child )

8. HOW WOULD THE WORLD BE DIFFERENT IF PEOPLE DIDN'T GET MARRIED?

There sure would be a lot of kids to explain, wouldn't there?
-- Kelvin, age 8

And the #1 Favorite is.......

9. HOW WOULD YOU MAKE A MARRIAGE WORK?

Tell your wife that she looks pretty, even if she looks like a dump truck.
-- Ricky, age 10wine sad flower wine
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Fraud warning

JURY Duty Scam

Pass this on to your grown children and anyone else you can think of. This has been verified by the FBI. Please pass this on to everyone in your email address book. It is spreading fast so be prepared should you get this call. Most of us take those summonses for jury duty seriously, but enough people skip out on their civic duty that a new and ominous kind of fraud has surfaced.

The caller claims to be a Jury Duty Coordinator. If you protest that you never received a summons for jury duty, the Scammer asks you for your Social Security number and date of birth so he or she can verify the information and cancel the arrest warrant. Give out any of this information and bingo, your identity was just stolen...

The fraud has been reported so far in 11 states, including Oklahoma , Illinois , and Colorado , AZ and more. This (swindle) is particularly insidious because they use intimidation over the phone to try to bully people into giving information by pretending they are with the court system.

The FBI and the federal court system have issued nationwide alerts on their web sites, warning consumers about the fraud.
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I am going to be married to a rich beautiful lady

What a Absolutely Gorgeously Beautiful Lady and she has professed her undying love for me. Only after two weeks of an email courtship and cyber dating this beautiful UNICEF Nurse who is working with orphans in Africa and Asia has asked me to marry her and help her claim her inheritance left to her by her father. Upon our marriage the bank will transfer 9.5 million into my account so we can set up a new home and live together without any worries. It is wonderful to have such a beautiful rich woman in my life that is willing to share her fortune with me and be with me for the rest of our lives, hand in hand as divined by god.

All I have to do now is contact her lawyer, and sign papers the we have consented to marry and give him my bank information so he can have the inheritance transferred into my bank (soon to be a joint account) of which half we will use to set up a new home and the other half we will invest for the future. God this is a dream come true and an answer to all my prayers, not only to have a beautiful young Lady at my side but a very rich lady that is willing to share with me to make our life and dreams come true.

Yes this scam is being run on me right now, an old scam with new twist trying to use love and greed to get into my bank account, strip me dry and then crush my heart in the process. Scammers using Beautiful avatars are praying on the emotional needs men and women who have suffered loses in their life, promising the undying love and riches and a new start to life with someone out of our dreams.

This particular scammer could not even wait a month before expressing undying love for me, a man whom she had never meet except on the internet, and her only introduction to me is that she loved my profile and that I was the type of man God wanted for her to have and love. The problem here is that many of us are here on this website to look for a companion, replace what we have lost in our lives and are emotionally open to the approach of a beautiful woman. When a beautiful lady of the mid thirties in age approached us and says that she likes our profile and would like to get to know us, our egos is really stroked and we could easily let our emotions and heart take control of our mind. This is what the scammer is counting on, so that we will give them the keys to our accounts and then drain us dry before discarding us like trash when we are no use to them.

Yes, I am looking for companionship and would enjoy a beautiful lady to take interest in me, But I will not be scammed or taken. Here is a another profile that I will report and have banned from the site, Oh wait, she has already taken down her profile so it can not be traced and will by tomorrow have a new profile under a new name trolling for here next victim. Yes, I know that the scammer is really a man just using Beautiful avatars to entice and entrap us poor lonely guys but it is hard to see past the many gorgeously beautiful pictures that She (he)sent.

Help me fight back by posting warnings on any profile that is a known scammer, and by reporting the profiles to the site management to be blocked and removed. As noted many places on this web site, do not get sucked in to sending money, giving any personal or bank account information, or receive money from anyone, these scammers are criminals and are out to steal from you then crush your emotions in the process.
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Just some Thoughts for the Weekend

"Good friends are like stars.........
You don't always see them,
But you know they are always there.."

"Whenever One Door closes,another Always Opens, Even Though
Sometimes It's Hell in the Hallway"

"I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here than a whole truck load when I'm gone. "

"Happiness keeps You Sweet,
Trials keep You Strong,
Sorrows keep You Human,
Failures keeps You Humble,
Success keeps You Glowing,"

"Worry looks around,
Sorry looks back,
Faith looks up."

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Tequila and Salt

This should probably be taped to your bathroom mirror where one could read it every day.. You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.

1. There are at least two people in this world that you would die for.

2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.

3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you

4. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.

5. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.

6. You mean the world to someone.

7. You are special and unique.

8. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.

9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it.

10. When you think the world has turned its back on you take another look.

11. Always remember the compliments you received.. Forget about the rude remarks.

And always remember...
When life hands you Lemons, ask for Tequila and Salt and call me over! wine sad flower wine
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TEN RULES FOR A POSITIVE LIFE

1. Put An End To All Criticism.
It never achieves or changes anything. Acceptance of yourself is key, when you approve of yourself, positive changes will come into your life.

2. Stop Thinking Scary Thoughts.
If you find yourself doing that, change it to a mental image that brings you pleasure. Maybe thinking of your cat/dog, a flower, food...whatever brings you peace.

3. Be Gentle, Kind And Patient.
Treat yourself as you would your best friend, in fact be your best friend! Be gentle with yourself, be kind to yourself, and be patient with yourself as you learn to change your thinking.

4. Be Kind To Your Mind.
Gently change your thoughts, let go of the self hatred you are expressing with your thoughts. Don't judge or hate yourself for having those thoughts, quietly and gently change them.

5. Praise Yourself.
Pat yourself on the back, criticism can only break your inner spirit. Praise will build it up, so praise yourself as much as you can.

6. Be Supportive.
You support friends in need, do the same for yourself. If you need help ask for it, that is a sign of true strength. Allowing others to help you is self nurturing.

7. Love The Negatives In Your Life. Own it, acknowledge that you bought them into your life to fulfill a need. Thank them for the lessons they have bought, lovingly release them, and make room for the positive ones you are creating today.

8. Love And Take Care Of Your Body.
Ensure that you look after your body, as well as you look after your car! So many of us would not miss the cars service, or think of putting the wrong fuel or oil into the engine, but don't give a second thought to what we fuel our bodies with. Cherish your body, and it will serve you well.

9. Look Into The Mirror.
Really look into your eyes often, and express the love you feel for yourself, say it out loud. I love you, I really love you!

10. Do It Now.
Don't wait until the 'right' time to start loving yourself. The right time is now, not when you lose ten pounds,get a new job,
or find a new partner. The time to start is now, all you need to do is the best you can.

"Never postpone JOY! Enjoy each second, so every moment becomes, the golden moment of your life!"
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