How exactly should one deal with the past? follow the adage-forget your past and focus on the future? Is this a wise thing to do. Where I come from we have a common saying too. Don't forget your past. Accept your experiences, lesson learned and wear them like a badge of Honor. What principle/say should one go by?
Fifty Shades of Grey. I so want to read it but it is banned here. Who has read it? what am I missing?