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The dream of mature people

A mature person is not only that one who lived a long life, but someone who had lived many experiences which may not, necessarily, be linked to age.

When we are in adolescence everything in life is enchantment and charm. All dreams are possible, life is a big and funny party and it seems paradise is our arm’s reach.

We believe our first love will last forever, we will be succeeful professionals, and yet, think people who are around us will always be sincere and gentle.

One day, we face the first obstacles: we lose our love, paradise gets dark, we need to compete and work hard and harder to get a place under the sun, and people… not all of them wish the best to us.

Our dreams are broken, we are experienced in living, we became adults, mature people. And it hurts. Yes, it hurts deepest inside us, in our soul, in our life.

Some people just give up, they get tired out of disillusion and let it go. Never grow up, never build anything. They do not believe at dreaming and the magic power of it.
They get old prematurely and become surly, bad-tempered. The world is full of people like that.

Therefore there are some mature people who still dream. But they have different dreams. The young people dream of building, starting, conquering... The old people dream of re-building, re-start, re-conquer…

The mature people dream after having once lived different experiences, after having their heart broken, after many disappointments, after falling into traps and having faced the harsh reality that not all dreams come true. But they still know that it is worth to dream. And dream on ... consciously!

They love again, again and again! ..
They fall and rise and restart every time....
They always believe the next time will be different...

They hold dreams in their hands and do not give up them!

Generally these people are living longer and enjoy their time in its fullest because know to use it better. They are idealistic and blessed!

The mature people who are still dreaming the dreaming of life, are the projection of God’s best wishes, here, in the earth.

YOU ALL HAVE A GREAT DAY

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FACTS OF LIFE

A LITTLE ADVICE FROM A WOMAN WHI IS LEARNING TO BE EXPERIENCED

We shall think as far as some things in life can compensate....... That's it, sometimes we try something so hard and sometimes leave other things aside. We should live more intensely, forget our fears and from time to time our principles, why not do something forbidden? It can be very exciting......

We must leave aside the opinion of the people and follow our own model. Do what you feel, say what pops into your head without modesty, make your dreams come true, practice your desires, forget the consequences, life needs a little chili pepper and until be proved otherwise we are free ..
Leave behind seemingly hopeless situations, do not live for something that you hope one day it will work ... life is one and the clock is ticking.

Nobody in this world is destined to be happy forever, to have eternal happiness .... happiness happens only in some moments of life and not full time, and it depends only on ourselves, we determined that we have chosen to be happy, be sad or we wait a lifetime for a happiness that does not exist.

Happiness is always in the simplest things, I can prove that to anyone who wants..... So let's live a simple life, let's be ourselves, let's put aside the pettiness, the frills, the false images and the unconstructive values.....

A person is who he/she is and not what he/she has.....
Let's rethink our lives, our values and our attitudes ....
Leave a little aside some goals, take risks, causing them .....
Leave some reason aside, acting on impulse from time to time ......

Contradict yourself, after all we only know things, we only learn about life experiencing it............... RUN THE RISK, LIVE!!!!!

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The XXI Century's new cupid

Well, we are in the 21 Century and with it a new cupid, the internet! For those timid persons, the solution! For those who want an adventure, a revolution! Who has not known someone interesting yet in one of those dating sites, like the connectingsingles? I am here, trying to find my "prince charming" for about a year

, and during this time I had the chance to find nice people, some of them well-educated, intelligent, curious, dreamers..., some are new good friends... BUT on the other hand, it is quite normal to find also some rude, unpolite, dishonest people, pretending to look for serious relationships and instead of that, just look for taking some kind of advantage of the others. We have to consider all pros and cons before getting involved in a virtual relationship. Yes, friends, this world and its people are beautiful but sometimes they are also awful, violent and unjust. All of us must consider four points of view on a virtual dating: the adaptation, the intention, and indeed the meeting. The interest in this type of relationship is "sui generis' because there is no real contact. The physical presence is not real, the information must be real. The lie can lead to a situation quite embarrassing and even disastrous. Never forget, we only get back what we give away.
Anyway, I am quite sure it's really possible to find our soulmates in the internet, specifically here at connectingsingles. Positive thoughts are alwyas worth. We can never give up, but dream on... and dream on...one day, all of a sudden, he/she will be there, just out of our dream...in flesh and blood...so take a deep breath becasue that's the moment, enjoy it. Good luck guys!

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Being alone - Judging by appearances

Practically, most all my friends are married. I mean, only one of them decided to keep single for her own convictions. All the rest completed the plan: study, profession, marriage, children. And, saving some honorable exceptions, now, all of them complain about marriage.
When we meet, which is not so often, the conversation invariably is: You are lucky " do not have to endure a husband "," have no children to worry about"...and so on..., a lot of gradual dissatisfactions. They complain about getting up early.., having to iron the husband's clothes..., hurry up to dress and feed the children... Ok, I decided do not listen to them any more, because I do not want to disappoint them by giving them an answer less beautiful.

If they only knew what is:

- Not be invited to a party because you are not a couple and everyone knows that couples only go out with other couples (and it happens in countries like mine where women are jeoulsy of other gorgeous woman, specailly if she is alone);
- Not be able to dine out, because dining out alone is not no fun;
Yes, they mistake by saying "you don't have to make dinner everyday". Like them, I do have to make dinner and it is really sad do not have anyone to share it with;
- Do not make plans for holidays, because I am always depending on someone else who, in turn, ultimately has plans with others and do not know whether or not I fit;
-Do not travel because being single a woman can not go alone to certain places;
- Have to pay all the bills alone - when I do have and need the same things as a couple;
- Have to be the man of the house - to fill the tires of the car, wash it, get some gas, talk to the mechanic, who thinks we, girls, are stupids and do not understand anything about cars, and yet, have to change lamps, making holes in the walls and all tasks normally performed by the (supposedly) stronger and able element the family;
- Do not have anyone to bring a gift, flowers - just for feeling like pleasing me....;
- And finally, having the full bed only for me - knowing that there are some things that needs two to be done...

Anyway, I know I can do everything what and when I feel like, and yet, to be the owner of the TV remote control, just see football if it is my team that's playing, or see my favourite soup opera. To choose the movies and everything else in my life, without asking the opinion of anyone else. To use my salary to buy what I want. Do not having twenty shirts to wash and dirty socks on the floor of the house, do not have to bath the children, to dress and drive them to school on time, and all the advantages my friends believe and think I have, BUT I would change all these things by a companionship at the end of the day, to share the good and bad moments I had experienced during the day.....

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