Why is it so so important that the people always ask me about money and where i work why can't they just be normal and just say hi and talk like normal people, i feel anyways that one ask about jobs like down the road after we have known one another for awhile not the first day especialy when they ask how much i make and how often i get paid is every 2 weeks or once a week lmao geeee, I know i never ask a women where they work or what they do for money in fact to me seems like none of my buisness where people work or what they do maybe if we were dateing or something, i guess i'm kinda the way that being friends is more important then knowing what one does for a liveing i guess.
This women answered my profile and told me she was all this and that so i responded back to her and at first i thought hmm she seems prety cool, so anyways we chated for like a couple of hours then all a sudden she began telling me she had some medical problems and all she needed was $150 bucks to get what she needed, at that point i began thinking of the big red flag syndrome this is a women from india who i never met in my life and already asking me my credit card numbers and how much i can afford to send her ect kinda stuff. So anyways i told her i have no money and i'm kinda like the rest of us americans kinda broke and i don't deal with credit cards anyways, and i asked her if she was one of them people looking for poor lonely souls to take advantage of and she says ohhh nooo i'm not like that I'll show you that as time goes by, so anyways time went by and she never got back to me again. anyways I'm getting fairly good at telling if someone is trying to scam me or not.
One thing to remember is never give out or loan anyone or even offer anything, if someone truely cares about you then the last thing on their minde would be asking for money, after all we are here in search of our potential companion in life not someone to give all our money and heart to for nothing.
I guess all i'm saying is do be very careful and watch out for the signs. sign #1 if they can post in your messanger more of a sentence in 5 to 10 seconds then it takes you to type like 3 sentences then you have a basic idea they have things pre-typed out then they copy and paste it to the messanger. sign#2 if everything leads back to their common goal in the topic which is Money then that could be a very good indicator. Sign#3 if you tell them you have no money and they seem to lose interest in you then you definatly don't need them anyways. Love is way more important then any money, don't get me wrong we all need the buck to live on but theirs so much more in a relationship then the mighty Dollor.
I figured i would share my expeirence with ya folks. sad thing we have to have people like that praying on people who are or may be vounerable and lonely, some people can become victims with scamers looking and using any possible way they can to make Money its wrong very wrong.
Thought i would post my experience anyways, thanks for reading.
Vinny
I never thought I would ever revert to going to a singles site to look for my sweetheart but here i am as with so many of us others here. It kinda seems easier to meet men or women in places like this kinda different then like going to a bar or some store like Waly World looking for people with rings on their fingers or weather their by themselves or not kinda thing. I beleive leave no stone unturned and leave every possibilitys open.
For one thing you can break the ice so to speak alott easier then walking up to a stranger and saying heres a pencil and pad of paper write down something interesting and hope they write down their phone number lol. you can go to chat rooms and observe people and say Hi or do the blogs like this one for instence. For me i feel we must be careful as well, theirs so many people who love to mess with peoples heads and winde up hurting someone for me i'm very careful when people ask me for my phone number or anything that involves personel information. if or when i meet my love on here i will take my time getting to know her the best i can befor i even give out any of my personel info, I also think at times when chating to someone and they don't have much to say they may also be talking to another one they may be interested in as well, its not easy to tell if their faithful or not all we can do is rely on trust and hope were not going to be hurt thinking ohh i finaley found someone ect. then to all a sudden finde out they found another person. I feel its so important to not take this thing to lightly as we are all human here, behinde every clown with that big red shiny nose is a person with feelings. But while I'm here and my love happens my way then I'll be so so happy I have found the true love of my dreams but at the same token I'll take it all with a certain grain of salt as well, I'm not here to be later hurt or lied to or cheated on.
Anyways just thought I would post something of my thoughts on here thanks for reading this and good luck to us all. I so hope we finde the Love we desirve and need in life even if its here we finde it.
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