I dont understand why it seems like ladies always seem to fall for the guys that are out to hurt and use them for what ever they may need at the time. You come on these sites and read profile after profile about a women seeking man and they all want to meet a good man but the reality is most of the time they look at a photo like a book they like the cover but don"t take the time read the story.There are some of us who go out of are way to make one feel special and when we do that it seems to me we are taken for granite. I"m a single man and who knows if i will ever have someone read my story not just look at the cover.