I received a very disturbing text message at about 2:30am saturday morning, my gut feeling tells me it was one of two people messing with me and I have had it. After four hours of sleep I got up, got dressed and went to change my cell phone number. I have been so stressed out with this situation between M and C that changing my number has brought me so much relief. No more phone calls with the he said she said bullshit! Thank you all for your comments and for the one comment about my morality for dating my ex's friend, all I have to say is that you don't know the whole story and if you did you would understand. I know there are plenty fish in the sea sorta speak and I never was that worried about it. I was just sick of the drama that came along with breaking things off with C. Even though I put some of the drama on myself for talking to M, and trust me there was other drama involoved that had absolutely nothing to do with M, it just felt like a good idea at the time and so I went with it. It's not a big deal now though they are both out of my lives for good.
Ok so I haven't been on here for very long, but it seems like I get a lot of mail from guys in different countries. What makes them think that I would be even the slightest bit interested in trying to get to know them? they live in another country!!!! I can understand the whole being friends thing, but seriously I dont have the time to get to know someone in another country just for friends purposes. It's one thing to enjoy someone's conversation but it's a whole other thing to enjoy someone's company. It's just not the same to me. Even at that I would be scared out of my mind to even have any of these "out of country guys" come visit me. I will take into consideration that some of them just want you to buy their way into the states but really??!!! It's not that hard to get a passport, the biggest barrier you will come across is trying to get a work visa. I will come off this rant by saying I hope everyone is having a great day and I look forward to everyone's opnions on this matter that stricks me as odd.
ok so about three weeks ago i broke it off with this guy, we will call him C, I was seeing. He didn't really mean all that much to me and never thought that anything would amount between us it was just something to do I guess. In recent terms one of his friends, we shall call him M, has contacted me through facebook. He said that he always had a crush on me and wanted to hang out with me and said he likes me. Heres my problem the guy that I broke it off with three weeks ago has been telling his friend (the one that likes me) that we made up and that we are back together...which is a complete lie. So M doesn't know what to believe even though I have told him a hundred times that i like him and not C. I like M but C is getting in the way. I told M that i didn't care if C knew we were talking but he doesn't seem to want to tell him. Which is fine with me I dont really care I just care that C is telling M lies about us and it's really frustrating.
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