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Affair like she was seeing another man. thats all the details i know :P

Every couple and relationship is unique so it's hard to give advice. I think either this woman doesn't love him enough or she wants to have fun before marriage. The main thing for me is that she hides something from him. No I don't think people change. And since marriage is usually (paradoxically!) a great challenge for the relationship I' m sorry but I wouldn't be an optimist. Better for him to feel pain now that during a bad marriage.

But maybe your friend, being so vulnerable, exaggerates things? Maybe just her nature is bit flirty and playful but she actually truly loves him?? If it's like that a balanced and mature behavior from his side would help. Better talk with her and clear up things.

I can't comment more since I don't know well these people.

Wish all the best to your friend!!!!

I have to speak with her and try to calm things down. I will assume she wont lie to me then i will be in a better position to give an advice. Anyways thanks for everyone, my last weekend was horrendous coz of this. I hope my friend will be ok soon.