RE: Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Berry if a guys is genuinely interested he will go out of his way.I'm asked out all the time..I take what they say with a grain of salt because I ain't a c*m jar.
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Poof.....up in smoke
Hello M4, well apparently ur not living close to the edge lol, an to a fella bellevillite a big hello. My daughter works there an thats my old roots, my fam doc is there as well since the seventies, over ear baview mall.....
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Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Merc,I'm not expecting a man to fall into my lap.
I would think I'd need to put in some effort to find a partner.
I'm just saying, I've lost interest in doing so.
If what you're doing works for you Merc, then by all means, continue on.
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RE: Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Berrys*xual desires Rob?
I take care of things....grin
*I’m very glad to hear it!
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Loss Of Enthusiasm....
s*xual desires Rob?I take care of things....
I've just lost the enthusiasm/desire/motivation.....call it what you will......to date, is all....
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RE: Are women capable of coping without men?
Come on Jhen! How could women possibly exist without us fantastic guys around?Who’s gonna whisper sweet nothings to you?
Who’s gonna buy you lovely flowers on Valentine’s day and your birthday?
Who’s gonna caress you and make you wild with desire?
Who is going to be silly and make you laugh everyday?
Who’s gonna put their arm round you and soothe you when you are feeling down?
Who is going to talk to you and sing to you in a deep sexy voice that drives you wild?
Who is going to make love to you like only a man can?
You know you love us really!
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RE: Loss Of Enthusiasm....
For me it's all about me not going out of my way.Where ever he is he can go out of he's way to find me
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RE: Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Berry...in actual fact...no they are not little lies.....it would definitely be true
Hey...I know NZ well..considering I went there on at least 6 occasions. Business trips when I used to live in Oz..so I know north and south island pretty well
One thing that occured to me when I read your profile is that on this blog you are saying you still have the desire for love and romance and sex, but that you can’t be arsed to go dating.
However,your profile clearly states that you are not interested in dating and only here for blogs. It kind of agrees but if you still have the desires, can’t see how you can fulfil them...hehe
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Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Daears...... The excitement.....yes, I remember.....long, long ago.
Glad you're still feeling it D.....
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RE: Poof.....up in smoke
Cant say I have....I think all my nail polish threads are still up....
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Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Rob.....ya big hunny..... Are those sweet little lies?
I'm impressed with your knowledge of Rotorua.....loved to hear ya pronounce some of our other Maori towns/cities...
......eg.....Ngaruawahia for one.Too damn true.....we live a hell of a long way off the beaten path....
Hope all is well with you.
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RE: Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Miss Berry. There is nothing wrong with the way your feeling or thinking. Sometimes I feel that way too. But straight away I snap myself out of it and tell myself don't be silly. The possibility of meeting another lover is just too exciting to not want too. When it happens again I know I'll be happy.
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RE: Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Awww Berry...well your biggest problem is that you are in NZ and me Robby am in Spain!Otherwise I would be dragging you out for dates faster than you can say Rotorua..lol
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Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Jhen,I've got a good 10 years on you though girl....
Sounds like you're enjoying your life.
I generally do live in the moment as well.....take each day as it comes.....though wonder if God has forgotten to send me a gift-wrapped male for my own to keep....
Just worry, at times, if we're missing out on something......and I hate that....
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RE: Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Aw no Berry As M4 mentioned I would say the same feeling I am hsving right now.
Having a job good friends to hang around enjoying our threesome with my big boys
I feel contented....this is for now.
I do @times feeling alone but I just remind myself " hey you are good"
Live in the moment. Forget about the past or things that haven’t happened yet. Living in the moment will get you involved in what is going on right now. Take the time to explore your senses. Enjoy the atmosphere where your at or maybe go outside and listen to the sounds of nature. Even sitting in a chair can be enjoyed if you learn to live in the now.
Your time will come God knows what
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Loss Of Enthusiasm....
No worries Geri....
Blogs/threads often go off in different tangents.
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Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Hey Mischief.... Yeah.....I can't say I'm in a bad place with it either.
I often go out for a coffee on my own.
I am quite enjoying me time......though was starting to wonder if there was something wrong....
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RE: Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Well someone has to do the work Mimi... Bloody Aussies are too lazy!
Oz Government needs to wake up to itself, but that will never happen.
(Sorry Berry).
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RE: Loss Of Enthusiasm....
I feel the same way berry...I used to be very romantic and now not so much....Im just happy being me and don't look for anything else anymore....im even thinking about going out at least once a week even if its by myself just to get out more to have a beer and play some pool.....I guess im just content where I am right now and that's ok with me.....View Blog
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@ Mimi.... Reminds me of a song....can't think which one now.....tell me little lies.
I wouldn't mind him being "dishonest" occasionally to shower me with compliments either....
God knows......I could do with it sometimes....
We all could....
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RE: Loss Of Enthusiasm....
And as for age just being a number?.. That's a load of codswallop!
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RE: Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Geriatrix No good! Coz we Malaysians now are having a very hard time to obtain a visa to go to Australia even for a holiday visit.
It used to be so easy and convenient. It took me an hour and less than AUD15 to apply an Australian visa March last year.
All these hardships now, thanks to my fellow Malaysians who are working illegally in Australia!
P.S Sorry for ranting on your blog, Berry
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Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Awww.....don't say that Geri......you're a lovely guy..... The right boat just hasn't passed by, as yet, for you, is all....
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RE: Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Berry,After the breakdown of my marriage, I was actively looking for a replacement.
My ex-husband was a good provider, financially but he was never an expressive guy or loving towards me.
I felt cheated and promised myself to do better the next time around. I want a man who’d shower me with compliments ( even if they are not true!!
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Hi Mimi... How's it going in your part of the world? And yes Berry... It is a stage... I was quite content to fly solo for more than ten years before the loneliness began to creep in and I considered looking for someone... Another 10 years have gone by and at 74 I have well and truly missed the boat!
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Loss Of Enthusiasm....
Merc....never one to mince words....View Blog