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Haters...We do Not Hate You...We Feel Sorry For You. Reasons why you shouldn't hate haters.

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Dear Mr. Crouncy,

Your speech for me is by far one of the most beautiful speeches I have ever read from you so far on this site and in general.

It has been impossible for me to choose in order to quote from your very well said indeed & valuable contribution so I quoted almost all of your comment.

I will start with what's most important for me which is, your advice which is avoidance of haters and trolls and "in any and all transactions".

My understanding is that transactions in this case, equals to interactions.

I absolutely agree and will try my best to apply this advice in practice especially for the reason given below.

The main or most important reason why as mentioned in your comment just prior to your advice is that, "when they get a reaction, even if it is bad or hurtful, they are elated at their new found power".

This is definitely not normal or healthy or comes under what can be defined as a Human interaction on a humane level.

As far as the online interactions and in this case trolling, you are bringing forward the subject of "The Power of Anonymity on the internet" as I call it and of course, on dating and/or social sites.

It assigns, it seems, haters & trolls with an invisible power to do & say whatever they want and wish, without any limits, limitations or boundaries.

Much worse, as you said, "they can be anything they so desire to" and this is their desire Mr. Crounchy, this is what they chose and choose to be, "to sink to that low a level just to feel alive".

" No direct contact or social interaction is present to chase them away".

Everyone on the internet Mr. Crouncy can be identified, especially trolls and haters if that is necessary for a specific abnormal, unhealthy, disordered and in certain cases, criminal behaviour to cease.

Thank you for your very valuable contribution in and advice on this subject, in how a certain type of people(haters & trolls) should be dealt with, an advice that extends also to real life interactions.

Cheers thumbs up waiter wine hug bouquet

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RE: Rainbows of opinions

Good blog, I like the way you express yourself as I have read other blogs of yours. peace

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RE: The future of romance?

Rob, You know, the idea of an electronic device isn't that bad of an idea. Most come preprogrammed ( like most women ) but some might be programmable to an extent. Once they start to nag you, just take out the batteries and let it rest for a while then it is back to normal.

This could be a prospect for future thinking. You could revive the " Stepford Wives " concept only sell subscriptions for three to six months at a time. When your subscription is up you could renew with a new model. It would help to make them look like Ava Gardner or Megan Fox. You could also make an economy model like Monica Lewinsky, or Ellen Degeneres ( yuck ).

Oh wait, I think I hear someone at the door. I'll have to get back later, as for now, I have to visit my friend who has the CNC machine shop and talk to my electronics friends also. . . .shimmy flirty . . . idea

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One more blog....for men

....k.....company showed up. Now it is time for priority #1 grin

Take care Keeps. :)

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RE: Las Vegas Trip

The taxi driver is a she, and she did win big amounts on the machines, twice. I believe her. But you see, they never tell us about the losses. rolling on the floor laughing

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One more blog....for men

I love cooking and laundry and cleaning the house....in fact, I had a smile on my face while I was scrubbing the toilet last night. laugh

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RE: Las Vegas Trip

Keepers.....

If there were any reason why that taxi driver told you to go after 4am and leave before breakfast....I wonder if he would still be a taxi driver. In other words, why is he/she not a millionaire relaxing on the beach somewhere...instead of? laugh

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RE: One more blog....for men

I have no problem with the dishes, just don't ask me to cook. laugh Men make better chefs anyway. yay

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One more blog....for men

Good morning/day to you as well Keepers. Hopefully your day will be wonderful as well. :)

I am just starting my day right now...and the hot coffee is tasting awesome. coffee


Now, what do I do today. I have about 10 different things I should tackle...one of them the dishes. laugh I know it is not good to hate, but I hate dishes. mumbling But, they need to get done...and priority #3 on my list.

...maybe #1 or #2 is buy a dish washer. daydream laugh

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RE: Las Vegas Trip

I was told by a taxi driver that we should go to the casino after 4am and no later than breakfast. Now there's no more money to gamble because our new project has taken it all. yay

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RE: Las Vegas Trip

Hello SR,

I don't mind gambling with as little money as possible. I am more of a poker tournament player. There is no beating the casino. Poker, at least you are playing other people...not the casino. With a poker tournament, you can buy in for a couple bucks and win big. thumbs up

wave

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LOVE is...

Nope, don't hate, it's beneath you Johnny. peace

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RE: attitude

Hello Georgie....you are so right about attitude, in my opinion. I have seen it so many times in life where somebody with a bad attitude only isolates themselves, or surrounds themselves with similar people....who are then isolated as a group.

wave

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RE: What would you do if ?

I really do not know what I would be doing with a gun on a public sidewalk, however, If given the opportunity I would like to think the following would happen. Since cars an trucks operate on rubber tires I would hope to shoot them out and please do not let anyone be hit by a stray bullet. If that did not stop the vehicle then it would be prudent to go after the driver.

It is easy to say this now, but as events unfold you usually do not know what is going on until it is too late. I also would like to think that in my anger over the incident I wouldn't shoot over rage. That would probably haunt me. I know from my time in Nam that to kill a human being is a hard and difficult thing for any reason. A little piece of your soul and your sanity dies with it.

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RE: LOVE is...

Hello Keepers....good blog.

I wonder if it is okay to hate idiots?

wave

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RE: The future of romance?

Robert....I think so.

laugh funny story Robert with many parallels to real life. rolling on the floor laughing

You watch and see if they do not have remote control walking bread out one day...you will really be sh*t of of luck then. violin

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AlanStagg

RE: Haters...We do Not Hate You...We Feel Sorry For You. Reasons why you shouldn't hate haters.

Hi Star...

Could I suggest that you "google" -> narcissist <- and read up all that you can?

10% of the population are... or very close to.

Learn to recognise and avoid.

wave

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RE: Haters...We do Not Hate You...We Feel Sorry For You. Reasons why you shouldn't hate haters.

Dear Stargazer 111, I think you are dead right about the trolls and haters here and elsewhere. I have often thought that most are just individuals with nothing going for them in their lives. They have little or no social life and once they get on the internet they can be anything they so desire to. They also have the anonymity of the keyboard so no direct contact or social interaction is present to chase them away. They can be as bold as they want and when they get a reaction, even if it is bad or hurtful, they are elated at there new found power.

I do not know if we should "bless " them but we should feel sorry for someone who sinks to that low a level just to feel alive and excepted. They also should be used as a model to avoid in any and all transactions. Good blog and I wish there where more like you and this one. . . .wine . . cheers . . hug

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RE: LOVE is...

Lovely Keepers wave hug



Unfortunately, there's no love in most met and solely based on my own experience, I say.

There's nothing and nobody to love as far as them is concerned. Neither inside them or in another and that's when words such as love are used basically to deceive and scam others.

That's why it's very important for others to know what love is.

A great number of people I've come across simply doesn't know or confused love with abuse, sex and exploitation.

That's why the subject of this blog is important so I'm going to complete (once again) Love is...

A feeling inside another that one has or does not have that acts as a fuel for what's considered in general by others impossible to become possible.

thumbs up teddybear heart wings heart beating smitten heart1

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robrt787

The future of romance?

Mercedes,

that's kind of what I thought when I overheard the lady at the grocery store mention where she kept her blue tooth plug. doh

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robrt787

The future of romance?

Angel,

I tried a "talk to" remote control, but it didn't listen to me. Never did a thing I said, so I let the dogs use it as a chew toy. head banger

I think the lady in the story will have problems when that remote needs batteries, or if she sits on it. Then what? A-ha! Then she'll get hers. mumbling
grin

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robrt787

The future of romance?

Pat8,

I once invested in a blow up doll, only to find she had an inflated ego.
So, I guess sometimes we can't lose for winning.. or something like that.
beer

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RE: The Perfect Life.

Great husband, we have two daughters, I run my own company and we travel the world every year :)

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Haters...We do Not Hate You...We Feel Sorry For You. Reasons why you shouldn't hate haters.

Comments for the subject of hatred and haters are now enabled. Thanks thumbs up

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RE: What would you do if ?

I would shoot but not kill. I'm so glad they caught him, my best friend there texted to say shes ok had quite a scare.

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Mercedes_00

RE: The future of romance?

Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

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Mercedes_00

RE: LOVE is...

I mean it's impossible to expect that from the opposite sex that sounds perfect but we don't live in a perfect world wave

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LOVE is...

Mercedes there's nothing perfect about that list. wave

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Mercedes_00

RE: attitude

Bugger the internet laugh

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Mercedes_00

RE: LOVE is...

I said the above because you won't find that any where.

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