WHY CANT MEN SHOW AND SHARE THIER TRUE FEELINGS???

Becayse when we do women dont think were kool. or they use it against us

Hi "Narlythinz" above is absolutely spot on. Unfortunately for us men most women give us very different and often conflicting messages. As in they want us to be both strong and fearless but also warm and sensitive.

But when we do try with sensitivity or show our fears and emmotions the women usually lose interest thinking that a guy who has fears is not strong. But as I recently saw in a movie where they said that " Without Fear There Is No Courage!" I agree with that 1000% as I think would most men.

It is sad for both that these are the standards and expectations that we live by, but all I can suggest is that you be patient. If you make it easy for the guy to open up and you show that you respect him even more (Not Less) for opening up then he may be encouraged to do it more often and so hopefully you can both build a relationship based on mutual respect and understanding.

I wish you all the very best "lippy"

See we are sensitive! You have a great day.

I have the same question in my heart.
I think some men are direct, some are not. I like men who can talk about their feelings directly. I like a man who is honest, kind and nice, and I also want him to treat me well. But even though sometimes men don't express their feelings, we as women can feel where we are, don't we?
I have instinct about where my relationship is.

i believe old mate is right without fear u cannot have courage, however real love is fearless.The two primary human emotions are love and fear so in my opinion one can not know the true meaning of love with fear in there heart as they are mutually exclusive .Men find it difficult to communicate true feelings because of insecurities which are derivitives of that primary emotion fear . people try to lose there insecurities with external solutions, buying a nice car ,goin gym etc, ralther than understanding that the external problems are only a reflection of internal conflict. What we fear we create ,but more importantly wat we think with focus and purpose will always manifest.