Seriously (21)

I had forgotten I was on this site and I have spending most of my time on another site...........I see some of the same faces here..............But what I really want to know............is how mant Connecticut people we have on here.......

So, let's all stop in and say "Hello"

Now, I remember why I didn't spend anytime here...........most of the emails received are form letters.......that make no sense or emails asking for money

I think this is the only site I talk to myself on......although I see many familar faces from another site I am on..........no one in CT likes to post here

For a minute, I thought you were asking how many people connect on here. But you're asking how many people from Connecticut. I'm from Connecticut but I'm sure if you look around, there might be 50+. Occasionally, I look at the girls' profiles to see what others are saying.

I'm not on here much anymore because the two guys I met were actually looking for casual encounters and not a relationship-- but that's not what the f--ing said on their profiles!

So, I come on here when I get mail but otherwise, I don't know how to meet nice guys. They really do all want one thing or they don't work out. I'm sick of this.

Proud to be Single!!!!

True...........this Internet dating is not to be taken overly seriously................as for CT...........all I am finding on this site is young ones looking for something far different then I am.............

Perhaps you can give those of us looking for a relationship some guidance - my first venture into internet dating - as I have not found what Im looking for in many other social scenes. I think there is a time and a place for the physical but do guys who truly want somethign more even have a chance - guess I get to find out.

The best thing about meeting women on the Internet is the fact that you skip the physical and start really communicating from the very beginning. Photos really have very little to do with how they really look and you can focus more on the person from the inside out as apposed to being motivated my looks alone. It is true that chemistry is important but a womens psychological, intellectual, and emotional state is often overlooked when meeting then physically first.

The best advice I can give you, if your looking for a strong long term relationship, is to look for the best female friend you can find.
Focus on communication and getting to know them and how they feel about life, what they really believe in, children, career, the future, and true love. Once you find someone you feel strongly about, someone you can feel content just by having their presence, then you'll be on the right track.

Practice makes perfect and I have learned the hard way...don't settle for anything but your ideal match. Take the time to find her..and the reward will be heaven on earth..