Do you........ (52)

Apr 6, 2009 5:18 PM CST Do you........
Katejen
KatejenKatejenJust North of the Border, Down Ireland9 Threads 270 Posts
lancerbora: yeah your right.. i wasted my teens with the same man,i wasted my twenties with,then had a child,then wasted more years...all this for fear of starting again...

but im hopefull,in that i know i have my own personality somewhere,,just got to get it out..


well said... I spent half my life.. wasted... on one man. now i feel i am ready for more. I did everything to try to be what he wanted me to be i have forgotten who i am.blues

so now i am waking up and willing to find out who i am and what i want for me, but i know who i am not. i could not just use someone for my benefit ever... thats just me
head banger head banger
Apr 6, 2009 5:21 PM CST Do you........
lancerbora
lancerboralancerboradublin, Dublin Ireland13 Threads 818 Posts
Katejen: well said... I spent half my life.. wasted... on one man. now i feel i am ready for more. I did everything to try to be what he wanted me to be i have forgotten who i am.

so now i am waking up and willing to find out who i am and what i want for me, but i know who i am not. i could not just use someone for my benefit ever... thats just me


yeah its hard isnt it...

i have to say,the meets on here seem just the ticket,,,i missed the last one,,but i refuse to miss the next one..if only to let my hair down.....cheers
Apr 6, 2009 5:24 PM CST Do you........
Katejen
KatejenKatejenJust North of the Border, Down Ireland9 Threads 270 Posts
lancerbora: yeah its hard isnt it...

i have to say,the meets on here seem just the ticket,,,i missed the last one,,but i refuse to miss the next one..if only to let my hair down.....

damm bloody hard.

yeh i would love to go to the next meet, didnt have enough nerve for the last one. but it sounds like everyone had so much fun. if i can go, i will (can i bring the cat and dog in the suitcase... meoww)
Apr 6, 2009 5:27 PM CST Do you........
lancerbora
lancerboralancerboradublin, Dublin Ireland13 Threads 818 Posts
Katejen: damm bloody hard.

yeh i would love to go to the next meet, didnt have enough nerve for the last one. but it sounds like everyone had so much fun. if i can go, i will (can i bring the cat and dog in the suitcase... meoww)


rolling on the floor laughing

yeah we should both make a pact,to go and let our hair down...cheers
Apr 6, 2009 5:32 PM CST Do you........
Katejen
KatejenKatejenJust North of the Border, Down Ireland9 Threads 270 Posts
lancerbora: yeah we should both make a pact,to go and let our hair down...

your on... see you there
cheers
wine
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Apr 6, 2009 5:53 PM CST Do you........
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
ladylumps: good on ya girl if thats what got you moving forward. You have to do what is right for you and no one else can judge you because only you know your mind and heart and what is right for you and if anyone judges you then 2 fingers to them.
Its all about what is right for YOU !!


Thanks for that LL but I wouldnt recommend it for the newly estranged. As you may know, men get VERY emotional and in that position, one is ready for any kind of heavy investment.
Apr 6, 2009 5:54 PM CST Do you........
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
Fraya: Thanks for that LL but I wouldnt recommend it for the newly estranged. As you may know, men get VERY emotional and in that position, one is ready for any kind of heavy investment.


I meant ISNT ready
Apr 6, 2009 6:01 PM CST Do you........
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
I think we do need a rebound relationship. I was split up just over a year when I met and went out with someone completely differrent to my exhusband. It lasted a year and was good but not great.

Haven't been with anyone since!! So it's about time!!

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Apr 6, 2009 6:09 PM CST Do you........
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
wexlady41: I think we do need a rebound relationship. I was split up just over a year when I met and went out with someone completely differrent to my exhusband. It lasted a year and was good but not great.

Haven't been with anyone since!! So it's about time!!


That surprises me frankly. You are pretty and have solid intelligent statements on here. I`ve never spoken to you before so forgive if I`m over-stepping the mark. Perhaps you have standards.....and integrety???
Apr 6, 2009 6:11 PM CST Do you........
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
Fraya: That surprises me frankly. You are pretty and have solid intelligent statements on here. I`ve never spoken to you before so forgive if I`m over-stepping the mark. Perhaps you have standards.....and integrety???


Yep, fraid so!!
Apr 6, 2009 6:12 PM CST Do you........
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
Fraya: That surprises me frankly. You are pretty and have solid intelligent statements on here. I`ve never spoken to you before so forgive if I`m over-stepping the mark. Perhaps you have standards.....and integrety???


Thank you soo much by the way.
bouquet
Apr 6, 2009 6:24 PM CST Do you........
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
wexlady41: Thank you soo much by the way.


Most welcome! I like the opinions of a few women here. Its refreshing. I like that its tainted with humour more than angst....more power to you.
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