people say be yourself but when you are they still have some kind of poblem.. (6)
jrocked297winnipeg, Manitoba Canada17 Threads 64 Postsall i ever wanted in a relationship was someone that would be with me and also let both of us have our sepporate lives as well as our life together... when my personal life to her seems like i don't want her to be a part of it, it makes me want to be more distant..... W T F
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HOW much time does your 'personal life' take up, maybe she feels left out
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Tis a classic issue, as is your response to it.. easily fixed, however. Have each of you make a list of things that you want to do apart from each other, and together. Compare them and discuss. If nothing else, you will see what the other wants to do with you, and without so there's no 'oh, I didn't expect that' or 'Oh, I was hoping we could do that together'. This is also where negotiation comes into play, and if you're not open with your communication.. the relationship is doomed.
Rich
Rich
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one problem is that she put herself all in right from the beginning, i have been more reserved because of past expieriences
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Discuss that with her, and explain to her in no uncertain terms as to why you can't. If you give her sound fact with which to understand, she'll be much more supportive, and alot less on edge as a result. As a result, there will also be less chaos that will result in the long-run.
Rich
Rich
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how come I cant find a guy like u....that is what I want...oh well I guess now that I know that guys think like this then i know that I have hope
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