Why do woman always say there looking for a good hearted man,and they always go for the ones that don't have it ? .......It just mite be me but it looks that way to me. what to you think ladys? or man, how do you see it?
When i say i want a good hearted man, then well, i want a good hearted man!!! sometimes the chics think they are good hearted but really its jus an error of judgement- i really dont know. But yeah- not everyone goes wit the a**hole so dont worry.
i must admit tall i have always threw away the good hearted without knowing it at the time my mam always if theres a bad apple i will find it dont know why though they say im a glutten for punishment, but i cant tell the bad from the good at the beginning as they are all nice then
hotlips it sound like we all need to get to know the person first really know them the insides of them.looks are good, but they can come and go the heart should alway stay. I wish it was as easy to see whats in the heart then, looking on the outer side of them, there looks
It was not promising She was always putting her self down, like she said that she was poor I don't care about someones money, I care about what's in the heart, and I told her that but she keep on about say I don't think you like me because I am poor. She said that she was fat, and wow far from that, she was about 5'7' 175 lbs to me that is not fat at all, And all she could talk about is how fat she was and she didnt know why a man like me would date her. being big are small, its what in you heart,is what I look at. And that is what I told her but she went on and on about it. I need a girl to love her self. If you can't love your self I think it would be hard to love others
You know what Tallman? Maybe she just needs some reassurance. Maybe she has been cut down and made to feel ugly by a jerk somewhere in her life. I know from being overweight as a child really affected me for quite a long time. I got in shape in high school and kept it off until I got pregnant.I gained 80 pounds with my daughter and it really affected me badly. I thought at one time that that in order for someone to love me I had to be thin. I learned different in the past several years. She just may need someone to show her just how special and attractive she really is.
I've noticed that if a woman has been treated bad by an ex, they think they want a change but cant understand or cope with a man being nice to them. so although they say they want a good heart, they are still drawn back to what they know, however miserable it is for them. they thing these guys treat them the way they do out of love
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