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The bickering, namecalling, bullying, paranoid suspicions, and accusations in this forum need to end NOW!!!

Reminders:
-If you receive abusive mail or if you have a suspicion about a member, the appropriate thing to do is send a report to Contact Us. After you send your report with details, copies and proof, you need to let it go and let staff take care of it. Staff has the info needed and will make an impartial decision. Staff may or may not agree with your supposition and your report may not result as you wished. But it’s not up to you to discover, discipline or ‘flush out’ any “bad guys”. Two wrongs don’t make a right and if you take matters into your own hands and break rules, you may end up with the consequences also.

-Forum posters should remember that if you get angry to the point of not being able to post with tolerance and respect, it’s time to leave the thread and find another. If you don’t like a forum topic or a poster, LEAVE THE THREAD! and don’t risk getting into trouble yourself.

-The forums are not a stage to play out private arguments. Private arguments between members should be kept to private mail and not displayed in the forum. Expose’s and ongoing bickering get attention, but mainly it stirs up trouble and is irritating and boring to others. Name and shame threads and posting private mail from members in the forum is against the rules. So don't take part in them. What if they're wrong!?

Both members above have been given some time away from the forums to help them remember that use of the free features here is conditional on respecting the rules and members. Hopefully they will return with a better attitude and be able to get along. The rest of you should try to lighten up and get back to using this site as it’s intended… to make friends and have some fun.