I haven't ever had luck in dating, my sister models and so the first thing any guys I like/am dating seem to do when they come over is ask me what my sister is into, though she is already in a committed long term relationship. Once they ask me that I automatically lose all hope and any feelings I might have had for him are fizzled out. I shouldn't be this down on my luck at eighteen, but i just don't know what to do anymore. I need a good guy, who will like me for me. I am not hideous or anything, I'm just not model perfect. But I know I'm compassionate and I try to do what ever I can to make the person I'm with happy...
BOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia3,464 posts
SweetSong18: I haven't ever had luck in dating, my sister models and so the first thing any guys I like/am dating seem to do when they come over is ask me what my sister is into, though she is already in a committed long term relationship. Once they ask me that I automatically lose all hope and any feelings I might have had for him are fizzled out. I shouldn't be this down on my luck at eighteen, but i just don't know what to do anymore. I need a good guy, who will like me for me. I am not hideous or anything, I'm just not model perfect. But I know I'm compassionate and I try to do what ever I can to make the person I'm with happy...
Not all guys are wanting someone for just their outside appearance,there are guys who are wanting the whole package.You say that you're not model perfect but,here's a good thing,many guys are wanting the person for who she is. Pretty eyes BTW.
IMO
In response to: I haven't ever had luck in dating, my sister models and so the first thing any guys I like/am dating seem to do when they come over is ask me what my sister is into, though she is already in a committed long term relationship. Once they ask me that I automatically lose all hope and any feelings I might have had for him are fizzled out. I shouldn't be this down on my luck at eighteen, but i just don't know what to do anymore. I need a good guy, who will like me for me. I am not hideous or anything, I'm just not model perfect. But I know I'm compassionate and I try to do what ever I can to make the person I'm with happy...
When they ask about you about your sister who models you get turned off of them because you are not as model perfect as your sister...
That sound like jealousy... Or is it???
No not really because, I have my own qualities, it just gets really old really fast. I love my sister, she got very good genes from my mothers side of the family where my look is a bit harsher than hers which I got from my dads its a simple as that.
Polarbutterfly: Not all guys are wanting someone for just their outside appearance,there are guys who are wanting the whole package.You say that you're not model perfect but,here's a good thing,many guys are wanting the person for who she is. Pretty eyes BTW.
IMO
Thank you, and I know. I just seem to be missing them when they stumble on by.
Maybe if you stopped worrying about what others think about your sister he'll stumble onto you; there'll surely be someone wanting you and only you, be patient.
SweetSong18: Thank you, and I know. I just seem to be missing them when they stumble on by.
SweetSong18: No not really because, I have my own qualities, it just gets really old really fast. I love my sister, she got very good genes from my mothers side of the family where my look is a bit harsher than hers which I got from my dads its a simple as that.
I didn't mean that you were jealous of your sister but that you were jealous of the guy showing interest in your sister... Or were you???
SweetSong18: Lol im not sure how to answer that, maybe some should, where if others do they become different people from who they really are.
True... If it is prescription drugs... But I was really just joking about we all in CS... My drug of choice here is ... I'm really not sure what kind of drugs the other are on... I know some do not do drugs cause they are still sane when they post in Forums and chat in chatrooms... Or are they???
well first of all you should not feel your looks are less so than your sisters lot of models i would not even look twice at attraction can be lot of things way she smiles , her eyes or just way she tilts her head from what i see your an attractive young woman and if i was 20 yrs younger and live closer i be chasing you myself
tallaght_guy: well first of all you should not feel your looks are less so than your sisters lot of models i would not even look twice at attraction can be lot of things way she smiles , her eyes or just way she tilts her head from what i see your an attractive young woman and if i was 20 yrs younger and live closer i be chasing you myself
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