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Aug 2, 2009 11:26 AM CST what would you do
southmiami
southmiamisouthmiamiTampa, Florida USA3 Threads 87 Posts
That's almost a quarter of a century difference. In ten years from now you will be in you mid 50s' and she in her mid 30s' and probably having three more kids.....
Look what man does not like a young female???
Haven't you experienced a lot already for your age why not try settling down with some one your age or a little bit younger??
It's up to you, your decision I would never date someone that is that younger than me. My answer is no.
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Aug 2, 2009 11:39 AM CST what would you do
cameraman
cameramancameramanSt. Petersburg, Florida USA29 Threads 19 Polls 2,501 Posts
vanitystorm: Wanna be my Daddy? Storm would be a daddy's girl, Cam Man!


laugh I'm not gonna get struck by lightning am I? conversing Okay, then we can be like Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, outdoing eachother saying, "Who's your daddy now," in "Mr. & Mrs. Smith." yay
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Aug 2, 2009 6:05 PM CST what would you do
DragonLee
DragonLeeDragonLeepleasantville, New Jersey USA32 Threads 399 Posts
waterborn: Not exactly the same ages, but in general, I've been there, done that.

Together for 3 years; it was lovely at first. We got engaged, had a daughter, but lost the relationship when the age gap became too apparent. What got me through this in the end was the understanding that one should not cry because something's over, but to smile because it happened at all!

Seriously, at 20, you have really got to ask: 'what's in it for her?' I know only too well what was in it for me - both good and bad!

So, I can not caution strongly enough to avoid taking up the offer if you want something long term. Chances are, it will NOT turn out the way you hope. By the way, ignore the shotgun threats, In my case, her dad is still a friend.
I`m not sure exactly what her age is, she does look 20 maybe i`m just looking for female company
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Aug 2, 2009 6:08 PM CST what would you do
DragonLee
DragonLeeDragonLeepleasantville, New Jersey USA32 Threads 399 Posts
southmiami: That's almost a quarter of a century difference. In ten years from now you will be in you mid 50s' and she in her mid 30s' and probably having three more kids.....
Look what man does not like a young female???
Haven't you experienced a lot already for your age why not try settling down with some one your age or a little bit younger??
It's up to you, your decision I would never date someone that is that younger than me. My answer is no.
i`ll thought of the fact that she might want kids one wouldn`t be so bad but young girl like this might want more that scares me
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Aug 2, 2009 6:09 PM CST what would you do
DragonLee
DragonLeeDragonLeepleasantville, New Jersey USA32 Threads 399 Posts
thumbs up
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Aug 2, 2009 6:14 PM CST what would you do
DragonLee
DragonLeeDragonLeepleasantville, New Jersey USA32 Threads 399 Posts
ihateusernames: well dragon, you should go for it. what have you go to lose?
two broken hearts
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Aug 2, 2009 7:11 PM CST what would you do
scorpiosiren
scorpiosirenscorpiosirendrogheda, Louth Ireland24 Threads 1 Polls 1,100 Posts
DragonLee: if your a 45 year old man and a girl in her 20`s is interested in you would you go for it



why not, if ur interested why shud age come into it?
and she has already accepted ur 3 kids
love comes in all shapes sizes and ages
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Aug 2, 2009 8:38 PM CST what would you do
DragonLee
DragonLeeDragonLeepleasantville, New Jersey USA32 Threads 399 Posts
scorpiosiren: why not, if ur interested why shud age come into it?
and she has already accepted ur 3 kids
love comes in all shapes sizes and ages
i hope it works out or she might think i want more kids
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Aug 2, 2009 8:41 PM CST what would you do
kkitty2
kkitty2kkitty2somewhere in Minnesota, Minnesota USA19 Threads 6 Polls 445 Posts
hmmmm I'm a 40 year old woman and hmmmmmm
what the hell could I do with a kid that was 20 barf


now 29 or 30 might be a better story wink laugh
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Aug 2, 2009 8:42 PM CST what would you do
scorpiosiren
scorpiosirenscorpiosirendrogheda, Louth Ireland24 Threads 1 Polls 1,100 Posts
DragonLee: i hope it works out or she might think i want more kids


well the only thing to do is sit down and tell her what u want from this if she agrees happy days if not at least u didnt start something that had to end
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Aug 2, 2009 9:12 PM CST what would you do
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
If i was a woman 45 which i am..and 20 some was interested in me..Hell NOooooooooooo
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Aug 2, 2009 9:17 PM CST what would you do
kkitty2
kkitty2kkitty2somewhere in Minnesota, Minnesota USA19 Threads 6 Polls 445 Posts
kissmedeeply: If i was a woman 45 which i am..and 20 some was interested in me..Hell NOooooooooooo


what if he was....... lets say 29 going on thirty and a personality that wont quit and then there's the body devil

wave hug
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Aug 2, 2009 9:31 PM CST what would you do
DragonLee
DragonLeeDragonLeepleasantville, New Jersey USA32 Threads 399 Posts
scorpiosiren: well the only thing to do is sit down and tell her what u want from this if she agrees happy days if not at least u didnt start something that had to end
i agree i`ll never now if i don`t ask
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Aug 2, 2009 9:33 PM CST what would you do
DragonLee
DragonLeeDragonLeepleasantville, New Jersey USA32 Threads 399 Posts
kissmedeeply: If i was a woman 45 which i am..and 20 some was interested in me..Hell NOooooooooooo
it`s been long time not hearing from you, how`s it going
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Aug 2, 2009 10:14 PM CST what would you do
Get_2_know_me
Get_2_know_meGet_2_know_meSaint Paul, Minnesota USA87 Posts
DragonLee: if your a 45 year old man and a girl in her 20`s is interested in you would you go for it


In my opinion she probably wants your money (if you have any) or she needs a daddy. Is that what you look for in a partner? Only you can answer that.
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Aug 2, 2009 10:32 PM CST what would you do
darren9030
darren9030darren9030Peterborough, Cambridgeshire, England UK56 Threads 1 Polls 9,665 Posts
DragonLee: if your a 45 year old man and a girl in her 20`s is interested in you would you go for it



It will end up in tears i feel
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