best partner ( Archived) (2)

I've always heard that Gemini does best with another Gemini.

I'm a Gemini and my three best relationships where with Gemini women. In fact, the only reason they never materialized into full-blown marriage was simple because we never fell in love. We got along perfectly has best friends. It's a real shame that I never fell in love with any of them. Love is something you can't force. At least not the romantic attraction kind of love.

I did "love" all of those women in the sense that I deeply cared about them. I still care about them. But I care about a lot of people. Caring about someone hardly equates to what is necessary for a lasting romantic relationship.

I know a LOT of women that I get along with really great. They are really nice people, and so am I. But that alone does not constitute falling in love. If love was that simple I can't imagine anyone having a problem finding a mate.

I'm not really into astrology. All I know is that I was attracted to Gemini women and got along with them very well on a best-friends level. Had we fallen in love I think it would have been a perfect relationship. Unfortunately love isn't something that you can logically decide to fall into. It either happens spontaneously or it doesn't. At least that's been my experience.

Moreover, when I hear single people claim otherwise I can't help but wonder why they don't have a mate. If they are capable of falling in love with just anyone who's nice then they shouldn’t have any problem at all finding a mate.

Sorry I kind of rambled beyond the topic, but really, there has to be some kind of romantic attraction or nothings going anywhere no matter what the sun signs are or anything else.