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Boban1: its 41....
and Santa made me a promise .... do you think Santa lied to me???...
and Santa made me a promise .... do you think Santa lied to me???...
Hahaha, Boban are really 41, u still believe in Santa?
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Sandy0123: Hi seveneyes,
Thanx for the encouragement, that feels much better. I guess there are sincere men out there.
Thanx for the encouragement, that feels much better. I guess there are sincere men out there.
woot! You make me feel good by acknowledging me!
do you miss him? Is reconciliation possible? Or at least amends possible?....It sounds to me that someone still haunts your heart.
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Shanny77: I know you didn't call them that, but any man who would...isn't one you want in your life!!!!
I absolutely agree with you & that's the reason why I'm taking such a long time to find the right man. Just too cautious I guess...
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Sandy0123: Thanx Englishman, that's exactly what I'm worried about, whether my kids will get along well with their new dad or not...
I'd be concerned about your/their relationship with the biological father
"I'm not sayin' anything; I'm just sayin'... " ~Bohemianjack, on communication
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seveneyes: woot! You make me feel good by acknowledging me!
do you miss him? Is reconciliation possible? Or at least amends possible?....It sounds to me that someone still haunts your heart.
do you miss him? Is reconciliation possible? Or at least amends possible?....It sounds to me that someone still haunts your heart.
No way, I'd never miss him since he's the one who cheated on me & left me alone with a big responsibility. I'd never ever think of getting back with him !!! Just that I have the time for myself since my kids are big enough to do things on their own & I feel lonely. Just wish I had someone nice in my life who'd make my frozen heart melt...
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Sandy0123: No way, I'd never miss him since he's the one who cheated on me & left me alone with a big responsibility. I'd never ever think of getting back with him !!! Just that I have the time for myself since my kids are big enough to do things on their own & I feel lonely. Just wish I had someone nice in my life who'd make my frozen heart melt...
You're a beautiful woman. When the time is right...the right one will come along for you.
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Shanny77: You're a beautiful woman. When the time is right...the right one will come along for you.
Thanx Shanny,
That's what everyone says but I'm not too young to wait for the time to come. Recently, I've started to think that I should make the effort too. One of my friends told me to join a dating site & CS is the first site I ever joined. I'm glad I did since I met lots of nice people here & one of them is you. Thanx
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Sandy0123: Thanx Shanny,
That's what everyone says but I'm not too young to wait for the time to come. Recently, I've started to think that I should make the effort too. One of my friends told me to join a dating site & CS is the first site I ever joined. I'm glad I did since I met lots of nice people here & one of them is you. Thanx
That's what everyone says but I'm not too young to wait for the time to come. Recently, I've started to think that I should make the effort too. One of my friends told me to join a dating site & CS is the first site I ever joined. I'm glad I did since I met lots of nice people here & one of them is you. Thanx
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Sandy0123: Thanx Englishmnan, that's exactly what I'm worried about, whether my kids will get along well with their new dad or not...
WAIT! hang on here he is the new dad,
relationships shouldnt matter about baggage from either side but unless you take it easy the baggage(kids) can actually destroy a relationship.
They have a dad and mam who live apart for whatever reason rightly or wrongly they want to see both parents together some take it painfully and dont want to see their mam or dad happy so the baggage can be difficult. Take it easy and let themcome to terms before allowing them to meet your new man.
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hey sweets..
relatonships come and go...its a fact of life,
dont introduce anyone to your kids, it gets confusing for them!
JMO
relatonships come and go...its a fact of life,
dont introduce anyone to your kids, it gets confusing for them!
JMO
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lushguy4you: WAIT! hang on here he is the new dad,
relationships shouldnt matter about baggage from either side but unless you take it easy the baggage(kids) can actually destroy a relationship.
They have a dad and mam who live apart for whatever reason rightly or wrongly they want to see both parents together some take it painfully and dont want to see their mam or dad happy so the baggage can be difficult. Take it easy and let themcome to terms before allowing them to meet your new man.
relationships shouldnt matter about baggage from either side but unless you take it easy the baggage(kids) can actually destroy a relationship.
They have a dad and mam who live apart for whatever reason rightly or wrongly they want to see both parents together some take it painfully and dont want to see their mam or dad happy so the baggage can be difficult. Take it easy and let themcome to terms before allowing them to meet your new man.
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solsticemoon: hey sweets..
relatonships come and go...its a fact of life,
dont introduce anyone to your kids, it gets confusing for them!
JMO
relatonships come and go...its a fact of life,
dont introduce anyone to your kids, it gets confusing for them!
JMO
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Sandy0123: No way, I'd never miss him since he's the one who cheated on me & left me alone with a big responsibility. I'd never ever think of getting back with him !!! Just that I have the time for myself since my kids are big enough to do things on their own & I feel lonely. Just wish I had someone nice in my life who'd make my frozen heart melt...
I'd be more concerned for your children, but because you feel lonely, personally I'd shy away unless you all have some therapy to deal with loss before adding another variable
“Smile, breathe and go slowly” ~Thich Nhat Hanh
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Shanny77: I know you said men....but I just have to say one thing.CHILDREN ARE NOT BAGGAGE AND ANY GUY WHO THINKS THEY ARE...CAN KICK ROCKS!!!! You don't need or want a man who would think that about children.Just my 2 cents
ONCE you get into serious dating ... you have to make discussions!
the OP says how many men prefer not to have a woman ... i would take that to be a wife ...
CHILDREN ARE NOT BAGGAGE .... TRUE... BUT THEY ARE A RESPONSIBILITY
sponsorship of children complicates every thing... if i were a younger man i would look at making a family ... but at 55 ... i am not interested in even starting a relationship with a girl with kids.....or even if she wants kids..... there is another 2 cents
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At my age I am not looking for someone with children still in the home. I wish you well and I know there are lots of guys who will accept them.
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I love my kids & never thought them as baggage but that's what men call them, right?
I know you didn't call them that, but any man who would...isn't one you want in your life!!!!