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Dec 2, 2009 7:57 PM CST I'm confused plz advice
Sandy0123
Sandy0123Sandy0123Kobe, Kansai Japan3 Threads 57 Posts
What do you think working with family business is good or bad. Please list out the pros & cons... dunno
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Dec 2, 2009 8:01 PM CST I'm confused plz advice
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Family businesses are very tricky. Ensure everything is in writing. Make sure their are clear roles on who does what and who controls what. Separate business from your personal life.
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Dec 2, 2009 8:09 PM CST I'm confused plz advice
wonderworker
wonderworkerwonderworkercosby, Tennessee USA201 Threads 2 Polls 1,883 Posts
Big_John: Family businesses are very tricky. Ensure everything is in writing. Make sure their are clear roles on who does what and who controls what. Separate business from your personal life.

Big John said it all.
And it'll be a nightmare anyway in all liklihood.
cool
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Dec 2, 2009 8:20 PM CST I'm confused plz advice
sassysexy
sassysexysassysexyWarsaw, Mazovia Poland6 Threads 1 Polls 62 Posts
First question...do you really want to work for the family business?
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Dec 2, 2009 8:26 PM CST I'm confused plz advice
Sandy0123
Sandy0123Sandy0123Kobe, Kansai Japan3 Threads 57 Posts
Big_John: Family businesses are very tricky. Ensure everything is in writing. Make sure their are clear roles on who does what and who controls what. Separate business from your personal life.


Thanx Big_John,
U r exactly right & I guess I just trusted my brothers & now I'm in trouble, sick & tired with everything after working there for 10 years. I did my best to tolerate all that they had done to me. I was treated like dirt & still kept on working hard assuming they would appreciate my work & one day they would praise me for it but it never happened. They kept on harassing me with unbearable comments & now I've lost confidence in myself. I've got so stressed out & because of this I've got heart problem. Now I'm so helpless but I think there will be a bright light coming thru someday. I hope I can get the confidence back & that I will be happy again...


sad flower
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Dec 2, 2009 9:21 PM CST I'm confused plz advice
friends4now
friends4nowfriends4nowMelbourne, Florida USA73 Threads 10 Polls 2,366 Posts
my family owned 2 businesses 1 retail 1 wholesale--wholesale is still running


DONT WORK WITH FAMILY!!!!




we all have worked at some point or another with another family member and it just ends badly


at least in my family it does




if you do go into business with them be careful-it will be very easy to step on someones feelings or to upset them just a bit too much and than it is downhill



good luck---nobody could pay me to work for family again
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Dec 2, 2009 9:46 PM CST I'm confused plz advice
Sandy0123
Sandy0123Sandy0123Kobe, Kansai Japan3 Threads 57 Posts
friends4now: my family owned 2 businesses 1 retail 1 wholesale--wholesale is still runningDONT WORK WITH FAMILY!!!!

we all have worked at some point or another with another family member and it just ends badlyat least in my family it does

if you do go into business with them be careful-it will be very easy to step on someones feelings or to upset them just a bit too much and than it is downhill
good luck---nobody could pay me to work for family again


Thanx for ur advice. I hurts when u know that I've dont so much for the business & what u get is a push from the highest hill. They will never ever find a person like me ever to work for them but I've decided to find a job that may pay me less but to enjoy & be able to smile everyday yay
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Dec 2, 2009 10:03 PM CST I'm confused plz advice
rubendario
rubendariorubendarioHartford, Connecticut USA8 Threads 1 Polls 3,278 Posts
My soon to be EX(I can't wait) went to work for my extended family against my advice. She has a degree in Physical Therapy and they were calling the house to give her a job weekly. I told her to stay home and pass the state license and go into the Physical Therapy field, what she said she wanted to do in the first place. No, instead she went to work for the family and came home crying daily. Then came the child, now less time for study and to this day after failing the exam 3 times, she still is not working in her field. I guess when your really hard core stupid and dumb...it is what it is!! doh doh doh doh doh
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Dec 2, 2009 10:14 PM CST I'm confused plz advice
Sandy0123
Sandy0123Sandy0123Kobe, Kansai Japan3 Threads 57 Posts
rubendario: My soon to be EX(I can't wait) went to work for my extended family against my advice. She has a degree in Physical Therapy and they were calling the house to give her a job weekly. I told her to stay home and pass the state license and go into the Physical Therapy field, what she said she wanted to do in the first place. No, instead she went to work for the family and came home crying daily. Then came the child, now less time for study and to this day after failing the exam 3 times, she still is not working in her field. I guess when your really hard core stupid and dumb...it is what it is!!


I'm sorry I didn't really get it, r u trying to tell me I'm stupid & dumb? I hope not...
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Dec 3, 2009 12:56 AM CST I'm confused plz advice
Stevia
SteviaSteviaOkanogan, Washington USA1 Threads 50 Posts
Pro's~
1. Stealing is okay, they won't call the cops
2.You can sleep with your boss
3.You can ask your roommate to cover your shift


Cons~
1.They'll know your not sick when you calll in and say you are
2. Stripping at work is frowned on
3. You sleep with your boss
4. You have to celebrate holidays with your co-workers
5. They all know you pick your nose
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