is it wrong to leave a single mother who creates problems (6)

I left a single mother that used to just be a friend that I've known my whole life. The sad thing is I knew how she was before I got with her. She's very blunt and rude to anyone who knows her. We got together after she had asked me to help. It wasn't pity that made me want to get with her, I was raised by a single mom. She was very she was permiscuous with a lot of my other friends. That scared me a little. I wanted to know that she actually loved me not just another fling. It seemed the more I got to know her the less I wanted to be with her. I grew attached to her little girl. The morning I left was the morning her daughter woke up screaming for daddy (me). I have a reason though so read this. That morning she took off with her daughter after we hadn't seen eachother for two weeks due to our work schedules. It was like a slap in the face to me. I wanted to bond and be there ecspecially after she screamed for daddy. We had planned that day to be together instead she takes off with her friend........am I wrong for leaving? Just want to know?

No, you're not wrong. Now you know why she's single.

It seems like the assumption is that it's always the man's fault, that he cheated or drank exessively or abused her or whatever, and that the woman broke up with and left him. Well that's not always true... there are some pretty crappy women in the world as well!

It's sad that she has a daughter, because she'll never change and her daughter will likely grow up to follow in her mother's footsteps continuing the cycle.

- Michael

No your not wrong for leaving. Though I know it is sad for the kid. Have faith and pray this kid will find their way out.

It may have been a hard thing to do, but not wrong. I know how you feel because I had an ex whos little girl use to call me mommy and I had to leave him because he was just a very horbile person to me. Didn't help that the POS slept with friend either
Just don't let it get to u too much because it was best for you if she was like that. I really do hope that her daughter will learn from her mother's mistakes though

No I don't think so at all! If you think she's playing games and you keep thinking what am I doing in this! Well...It's a big red flag. I've been in bad relationships with people who had kids.It's sad because they now you love the children and they use it to the advantage. I've waisted years in relationships. Find that someone that feeds ur soul! Good luck!