Foolish Pride ( Archived) (5)

Foolish Pride has to be one of the most destructive powers, that have ruin so many relationships! I'm not talkin about someone who you meet and bump heads with, I'm talkin about someone who you Love! Someone who has managed to work their way so deep in your heart you just cant forget them.

Usually when Foolish Pride has reared its ugly head, its not even because of something big. Oh No! No! its usually over something silly or meaningless, truth be told, half the time ya cant even remember what even started it, or if you can..in looking back, it was over something so silly, yet had so much weight at the time, the relationship ended, not because the crime was unforgivable, but Foolish Pride stood in the way!

Neither one would break their stance,How Sad!

Neither one really wanted to say Good Bye! but Foolish Pride got in the way, For What? Now you look back and say to your self,If I could turn back the hands of time,I would do alot of things different. Well atleast one thing for sure, If I would have known then, what my heart would still feel today I would have told he/she "I'm in Love with You" and don't want anything to come between us and the life we could have together! No one has ever got to me the way you did, you made it easy to love you, and feel love in ways I never knew.

But it doesnt happen that way,this thing called Foolish Pride, gets in the way! and two people walk away from each other and in many cases, a Love that seem so perfect,the kind of love that ya read about or the kind of love that we dream about! And when its gone, You know,you know that he/she was,"The One" the one who could reach you and read you like no other, the one who made your heart melt everytime they walked in the room, holding them close to you was like holding your dreams, only it was real, it was like Magic!

You understood each other so well, that it was never about the big things.

Faithful-no problem

Trust-of course

Respect-absolutely

Communication-like no other

Love-you both seen it touched it and felt it, no doubt

Committment-came easy

Everything seemed so right, maybe to right? was it fear it wouldnt last or being to comfortable in well doing? but life goes on,and ya meet new people, even some who see in you what he/she did, and some even say how could he/she ever have walked away from you? ya say to your self I have asked myself that same question it seems a thousand times, and a thousand times it still doesnt make any sense.

Sometimes people get a read on how you feel,and ask that Question, Would you ever go back to them? your first response is No! is that Foolish pride yet again rearing it's head?

But down in your heart ya know you miss them especially that kind of love, So are ya being honest? Well ya think you are, cuz ya know they would never pick up the phone or knock at your door and say, I'm still in love with you and I dont want to go thru life without you! Its that Foolish Pride that gets in the way!

What a Shame,Its like a stand off, ya both know your crazy about each other and have shared feelings and a love like no other! even when time has passed ya still think Did I leave your mind and heart while I was gone? the truth be told, No neither one of us did, But "Foolish Pride" keeps us apart!

Beware of "Foolish Pride" it can be a very distructive force, as many of us may have experienced once, or maybe twice. Not that I would know anything about this personally.

A stubborn minute can have a life time effect, even when the tears stop falling from the outside, its still maybe raining on the inside.

From the Chronicles of Poco



psssssssssssssst....No this is not a current situation, I always get sympathy mail when I post something about relationships, I just like talking about the Do's and Don'ts of Relationships, and getting feed back, after all this is a dating site first and foremost.I always learn from others thoughts and opinions.

truer wirds have never been spoken

Hi Cincity....
So you understand.. it is a subject very few talk about, but it can and often is the demise of a relationship.