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tarzan909CC, Texas USA35 PostsIt's definitely not all guys I have 3 kids of my own and 6 step kids, I met my last wife when she was pregnant with her 4th. When we got together, the children were 7,5,3 and 1 month. I raised them as if they were my own until my previous wife died and I had to move 3,000 miles away to take care of my Daughter. I still talk to all my step children and they all call me dad. The youngest is now 18. All of their children call me Grandpa and I am proud of it! I believe, as do allot of other people I know, that without children around, life is not worth spit!
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tarzan909: It's definitely not all guys I have 3 kids of my own and 6 step kids, I met my last wife when she was pregnant with her 4th. When we got together, the children were 7,5,3 and 1 month. I raised them as if they were my own until my previous wife died and I had to move 3,000 miles away to take care of my Daughter. I still talk to all my step children and they all call me dad. The youngest is now 18. All of their children call me Grandpa and I am proud of it! I believe, as do allot of other people I know, that without children around, life is not worth spit!
Good man yourself
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Veritaas: Good man yourself
you got mail
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Englishman55: Wrong.... so wrong.... stop blaming the guy.......
I was with my ex for 21 years before we had children, then when the first one arrived I was overjoyed and wanted to be involved so much, it was not true, but what happened....... she had got what she wanted.... cildren adn I was toyally excluded, even to the point of being accused of being a useless father.Realise that when you have children, you as a woman give 100% to you child..... it's not the case that a guy does not want to know, but it is a case that you as a Mother will not allow him to get close........
Give us guys a break FFS
I was with my ex for 21 years before we had children, then when the first one arrived I was overjoyed and wanted to be involved so much, it was not true, but what happened....... she had got what she wanted.... cildren adn I was toyally excluded, even to the point of being accused of being a useless father.Realise that when you have children, you as a woman give 100% to you child..... it's not the case that a guy does not want to know, but it is a case that you as a Mother will not allow him to get close........
Give us guys a break FFS
I understand totaly how you feel and in your case a woman would have to embrace your children too as you are a father and spend quality time with them regulaly.they are as much a part of your life as they are their mothers.
Its about haveing enough love to go around and shared quality time
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a lot of men are afraid of commitment and of how much time you want with your kids,some idiots think you want a new dad for your kids
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lakelander you seem to have it in the bag great comment your a good guy
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I totally agree with the cartoons bit!
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I always liked dating chicks that had kids.....they are little people and can weed the garden easier than I can...
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adamisk: once again i would totally date a woman with kids it would give me a valid excuse to watch cartoons .
I agree on this.....
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sweetowen: I was a single mom. It wasn't easy to find a man, especially one who wanted to include my daughter in the relationship. I've heard men say they don't want ready-made families... so unfair.
But then again... if the child's own father can't take the responsibility, why should someone who didn't even MAKE the child? It does suck though.
well i brought up my stepson at 3 months he is now 21 and i dont regret one moment of it and never willBut then again... if the child's own father can't take the responsibility, why should someone who didn't even MAKE the child? It does suck though.
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sweetowen: I was a single mom. It wasn't easy to find a man, especially one who wanted to include my daughter in the relationship. I've heard men say they don't want ready-made families... so unfair.
But then again... if the child's own father can't take the responsibility, why should someone who didn't even MAKE the child? It does suck though.
But then again... if the child's own father can't take the responsibility, why should someone who didn't even MAKE the child? It does suck though.
by the way owen, we miss you in the forums!
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