i need sum advice (26)

Jun 4, 2010 6:59 AM CST i need sum advice
firsttimerhere
firsttimerherefirsttimerhereireland, Waterford Ireland3 Threads 104 Posts
A very gud mate of mine moved to england 6 months ago,during this time we chatted at least 4 nights aweek and txted every day, yesterday to my surprise he arrived at my door.last night we went for a lovely meal in dublin and went to howth to look at the view.it was magical then he told me he was in love with me and cant bare to be with out me any more.

i was shell shocked i do love him to bits and missed him like crazy when hes not around but i dont know if the love i feel for his is just a frindship love or smnt more.

in the past we only ever kissed or cuddled when watchen tv ect and nothing more.im so confussed here.
Jun 4, 2010 7:13 AM CST i need sum advice
singlepringle101
singlepringle101singlepringle101westmeth, Westmeath Ireland42 Threads 539 Posts
firsttimerhere: A very gud mate of mine moved to england 6 months ago,during this time we chatted at least 4 nights aweek and txted every day, yesterday to my surprise he arrived at my door.last night we went for a lovely meal in dublin and went to howth to look at the view.it was magical then he told me he was in love with me and cant bare to be with out me any more.

i was shell shocked i do love him to bits and missed him like crazy when hes not around but i dont know if the love i feel for his is just a frindship love or smnt more.

in the past we only ever kissed or cuddled when watchen tv ect and nothing more.im so confussed here.
you are so lucky that you have someone that loves you! maybe just go on a few dates and see what happes, you never know , he could be the one! juat folow your heart , only you can decide on what you want to do hug
Jun 4, 2010 7:15 AM CST i need sum advice
earleybird66
earleybird66earleybird66wexford, Wexford Ireland98 Posts
firsttimerhere: A very gud mate of mine moved to england 6 months ago,during this time we chatted at least 4 nights aweek and txted every day, yesterday to my surprise he arrived at my door.last night we went for a lovely meal in dublin and went to howth to look at the view.it was magical then he told me he was in love with me and cant bare to be with out me any more.

i was shell shocked i do love him to bits and missed him like crazy when hes not around but i dont know if the love i feel for his is just a frindship love or smnt more.

in the past we only ever kissed or cuddled when watchen tv ect and nothing more.im so confussed here.
maybe he does really love you but the only thing you can do is wait until the shock of what he said sinks in and has passed then search your heart to see how you feel take your time and see
Jun 4, 2010 7:24 AM CST i need sum advice
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
firsttimerhere: A very gud mate of mine moved to england 6 months ago,during this time we chatted at least 4 nights aweek and txted every day, yesterday to my surprise he arrived at my door.last night we went for a lovely meal in dublin and went to howth to look at the view.it was magical then he told me he was in love with me and cant bare to be with out me any more.

i was shell shocked i do love him to bits and missed him like crazy when hes not around but i dont know if the love i feel for his is just a frindship love or smnt more.

in the past we only ever kissed or cuddled when watchen tv ect and nothing more.im so confussed here.


Well I dont know about other people on here but I dont kiss and cuddle my mates when Im watching tv or at any other time ( apart from the hi /bye brief hug ) sounds like the boundry lines are a little bit blurred and you've gone beyond the friendship stage imo dunno
Jun 4, 2010 7:51 AM CST i need sum advice
Alexei23
Alexei23Alexei23Ireland, Limerick Ireland32 Threads 6 Polls 1,455 Posts
firsttimerhere: A very gud mate of mine moved to england 6 months ago,during this time we chatted at least 4 nights aweek and txted every day, yesterday to my surprise he arrived at my door.last night we went for a lovely meal in dublin and went to howth to look at the view.it was magicalthen he told me he was in love with me and cant bare to be with out me any more.

i was shell shocked i do love him to bits and missed him like crazy when hes not around but i dont know if the love i feel for his is just a frindship love or smnt more.

in the past we only ever kissed or cuddled when watchen tv ect confused and nothing more.im so confussed here.


Ya it's not rocket science, your in looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove barf
Sleep with him and see how ya feel after yay
Jun 4, 2010 7:51 AM CST i need sum advice
Alexei23
Alexei23Alexei23Ireland, Limerick Ireland32 Threads 6 Polls 1,455 Posts
firsttimerhere: A very gud mate of mine moved to england 6 months ago,during this time we chatted at least 4 nights aweek and txted every day, yesterday to my surprise he arrived at my door.last night we went for a lovely meal in dublin and went to howth to look at the view.it was magicalthen he told me he was in love with me and cant bare to be with out me any more.

i was shell shocked i do love him to bits and missed him like crazy when hes not around but i dont know if the love i feel for his is just a frindship love or smnt more.

in the past we only ever kissed or cuddled when watchen tv ect confused and nothing more.im so confussed here.


Ya it's not rocket science, your in looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove barf
Sleep with him and see how ya feel after yay
Jun 4, 2010 8:08 AM CST i need sum advice
L1977C
L1977CL1977Cdublin, Dublin Ireland8 Threads 3,219 Posts
ladylumps: Its one thing fancying your friend but not acting on it but they have already gone past that. And if she doesnt fancy him or feel that way about him then why kiss him ???? I'd have to fancy someone to snog them

yeah
ah I think she already knows the answer to her own question
and sure some of the best relationships are based on friendship first
Jun 4, 2010 8:13 AM CST i need sum advice
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
L1977C: yeah
ah I think she already knows the answer to her own question
and sure some of the best relationships are based on friendship first


Yeah I think she should go for it. thumbs up
Jun 4, 2010 8:13 AM CST i need sum advice
Alexei23
Alexei23Alexei23Ireland, Limerick Ireland32 Threads 6 Polls 1,455 Posts
ladylumps: Its one thing fancying your friend but not acting on it but they have already gone past that. And if she doesnt fancy him or feel that way about him then why kiss him ???? I'd have to fancy someone to snog them

Her profile says she's 35 shock I was all like no waaaay!
Jun 4, 2010 8:14 AM CST i need sum advice
L1977C
L1977CL1977Cdublin, Dublin Ireland8 Threads 3,219 Posts
Alexei23: Her profile says she's 35 I was all like no waaaay!

yeah and????
Jun 4, 2010 8:23 AM CST i need sum advice
Alexei23
Alexei23Alexei23Ireland, Limerick Ireland32 Threads 6 Polls 1,455 Posts
L1977C: yeah and????

just thought that a 35yr old would know what love is...uh oh
Jun 4, 2010 8:42 AM CST i need sum advice
firsttimerhere: A very gud mate of mine moved to england 6 months ago,during this time we chatted at least 4 nights aweek and txted every day, yesterday to my surprise he arrived at my door.last night we went for a lovely meal in dublin and went to howth to look at the view.it was magical then he told me he was in love with me and cant bare to be with out me any more.

i was shell shocked i do love him to bits and missed him like crazy when hes not around but i dont know if the love i feel for his is just a frindship love or smnt more.

in the past we only ever kissed or cuddled when watchen tv ect and nothing more.im so confussed here.
go for it girl,,applause applause
Jun 4, 2010 8:46 AM CST i need sum advice
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
Alexei23: just thought that a 35yr old would know what love is...


Why would you presume that ???
Jun 4, 2010 8:54 AM CST i need sum advice
Alexei23
Alexei23Alexei23Ireland, Limerick Ireland32 Threads 6 Polls 1,455 Posts
ladylumps: Why would you presume that ???

just assumed so cool why do women need a reason for everything confused
Jun 4, 2010 9:14 AM CST i need sum advice
boredguy
boredguyboredguydublin, Kildare Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 1,788 Posts
I really can't get enough of this kind of thing ....doh



Boy likes girl ....heart beating girl likes boy ...heart wings Whats the problem like ...dunno nothing venture nothing gain......devil laugh




Go for IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!yay
Jun 4, 2010 9:19 AM CST i need sum advice
boredguy
boredguyboredguydublin, Kildare Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 1,788 Posts
I really can't get enough of this kind of thing ....doh



Boy likes girl ....heart beating girl likes boy ...heart wings Whats the problem like ...dunno nothing venture nothing gain......devil laugh




Go for IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!yay
Jun 4, 2010 9:57 AM CST i need sum advice
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
ladylumps: Well I dont know about other people on here but I dont kiss and cuddle my mates when Im watching tv or at any other time ( apart from the hi /bye brief hug ) sounds like the boundry lines are a little bit blurred and you've gone beyond the friendship stage imo


wave LL totally agree with every word, however i would add to the Op DONT go there

one thing to be very good friends and maybe you fancy each other or its just him who knows but to go beyond the friendship boundary can have an adverse affect on the future friendship.

think before you act
Jun 4, 2010 10:04 AM CST i need sum advice
sarahwynn
sarahwynnsarahwynnlaois, Leix Ireland2 Posts
firsttimerhere: A very gud mate of mine moved to england 6 months ago,during this time we chatted at least 4 nights aweek and txted every day, yesterday to my surprise he arrived at my door.last night we went for a lovely meal in dublin and went to howth to look at the view.it was magical then he told me he was in love with me and cant bare to be with out me any more.

i was shell shocked i do love him to bits and missed him like crazy when hes not around but i dont know if the love i feel for his is just a frindship love or smnt more.

in the past we only ever kissed or cuddled when watchen tv ect and nothing more.im so confussed here.


I dont think you should act on this. to act on it would debase the friendship forever, his love is intense but dont let it cajole you down the wrong path if you loved him like that you would know.
Jun 4, 2010 10:06 AM CST i need sum advice
James_Pond
James_PondJames_PondDublin, Ireland124 Threads 23 Polls 2,417 Posts
In response to: A very gud mate of mine moved to england 6 months ago,during this time we chatted at least 4 nights aweek and txted every day, yesterday to my surprise he arrived at my door.last night we went for a lovely meal in dublin and went to howth to look at the view.it was magical then he told me he was in love with me and cant bare to be with out me any more.

i was shell shocked i do love him to bits and missed him like crazy when hes not around but i dont know if the love i feel for his is just a frindship love or smnt more.

in the past we only ever kissed or cuddled when watchen tv ect and nothing more.im so confussed here.


follow your heart. you'll know the right thing to do..
Jun 4, 2010 10:08 AM CST i need sum advice
leisure07
leisure07leisure07birmingham, West Midlands, England UK29 Threads 1 Polls 7,059 Posts
if your heart is not missing a beat then ...............
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