Guys, i need some advice (5)

I AM BROKEN-HEARTED WITH MY ONLY GRAND DAUGHTER, THAT MY SON AND HIS GF KEEP HER AWAY FROM ME. IN FACT I WAS THE ONE THAT TAKES CARE OF HER SINCE SHE/HER MOM CAME HOME FROM THE HOSPITAL. ANY KIND OF DAY AND NIGHT THEY WANT ME TO BABYSIT I WAS THERE. EVENTHOUGH I WORK, AND GO TO SCHOOL. THEN, LET THEM STAYED IN MY HOUSE LAST YR. OCT. LATELY, I WAS SICKENED FROM MY NECK AND NUMBED HANDS AND FEET, DUE TO MY AUTO ACCIDENT LAST DEC. 2009.
MY SON AND HIS GF WAS DISRESPECTING ME, CUZ I DECLINED SOMETIMES TO WATCHED MY GRANDDAUGHTER.
THEY, THEN STARTED ABUSING ME AND CALLING ME I'M LAZY CUZ I CAN'T WATCH MY GDAUGHTER,WHILE THEY WANT TO GO AND HAD FUN. SO, I TOLD THEM TO GET OUT IN MY HOUSE BEC THEY DISRESPECT ME. NOW, THEY (SON AND HIS GF) USED MY GDAUGHTER NOT TO VISIT NOR SEE ME, EVEN THEY WERE IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD. IT HURTS ME A LOT, BUT I CAN'T AFFORD TO GET EMOTIONAL BEC I JUST GET OUT FROM THE HOSPITAL, AND HAD SURGERY ON MY CERVICAL/STENOSIS OF THE SPINE. I'M OK NOW, BUT NOT FULLY RECOVER.
I NEED YOUR ADVICE FROM THOSE PEOPLE THAT HAD EXPERIENCE, OR KNOW SOME WAY THAT IT DOESN'T GO TO THE AUTHORITY. MY SON WOULD BE OK, TO LET MY GRANDDAUGHTER COME TO SEE ME, BUT THAT GIRLFRIEND IS REALLY,BEING A WITCH AND DOING THAT TO ME. PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!HELP!!!!! ME
LIZA

SOME TIMES PEOPLE THAT WE LOVE THE MOST DO THINGS THAT HURT THE MOST, DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH BUT THREE YEARS AGO THE EX TOLD ME TO GET OUT AND PACK MY STUFF AND GET OUT, WE AT THAT TIME WERE LIVING IN ALABAMA, JUST MOVED THERE SEVEN YEARS BEFORE FROM PA, NOT HAVING A CAR OR TRUCK I HAD TO FIND A PLACE TO MOVE TO THAT WAS THE START OF IT ALL, BEEN THERE DONE THAT HELPED WRITE THE BOOK, SINCE THEN I MOVED BACK TO PA AND ONE DAY AT A TIME IS HOW IT IS DONE

THE ONLY WAY THAT COULD BE DONE IS TO GET YOUR SON ALONE SONE HOW AND ASK HIM WHAT IS THE PROBLEM AND ONLY IF HE IS A MAN WILL HE TELL YOU THE TRUUTH

TO SILKWATER,
i APPRECIATE YOUR HEARFELT EXPERIENCE, THAT YOU SHARE YOUR STORY TO ME. YES, VERY TRUE THAT THE PEOPLE WE LOVE THE MOST WILL HURT US. BUT MY SON HAS BEEN BRAIN WASHED BY HIS GF, AND THEY'RE USING MY GRANDAUGHTER TO HURT ME,BEC OF VERY SPITE WAY. THEY WANTED ME TO BE THEIR MAID, THEIR LANDLADY WITHOUT PAYING RENT, AND EXPLOITING ME FINANCIALLY. WHEN THE TIME THAT I WAS INJURED AND IN PAIN, THEY TOLD ME (BOTH MY SON AND GF) THAT I WAS LAZY. SO, I TOLD THEM TO GET OUT IN MY HOUSE. BEC THAT WAS DISRESPECT ON MY PART. I WAS NOT BROUGHT UP THAT WAY IN MY COUNTRY/PHILIPPINES. JUST A WEEK AGO AND THEY MOVE OUT. THANK YOU FOR YOUR INPUT.