sohail2011: my job is really good i sale look after electronic store we sale 3D tv plasma lcd led products but the pay is very less. i tried my best to get job in dyncrop afghanistan.. but i'm not getting job :( i'm not able to help my family so i just wanted to end my life..
Think about this, would ending your life help your family?
If you were to end your life would that change your family sitaution?
cynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK1,897 posts
Might want to read this OP:
You've decided to do it. Life is impossible. Suicide is your way out. Fine -- but before you kill yourself, there are things you should know. I am a psychiatric nurse, and I see the results of suicide -- when it works and, more often, when it doesn't. Consider, before you act, these facts: Suicide is usually not successful. You think you know ways to guarantee it?
Ask the 25-year-old who tried to electrocute himself. He lived. But both his arms are gone. What about jumping? Ask John. He used to be intelligent with an engaging sense of humor. That was before he leaped from a building. Now he's brain-damaged and will always need care. He staggers and has seizures. He lives in a fog. Worst of all, he knows he used to be normal. What about pills? Ask the 12-year-old with extensive liver damage from an overdose. Have you ever seen anyone die of liver damage? You turn yellow. It's a hard way to go. What about a gun? Ask the 24-year-old who shot himself in the head. Now he drags one leg, has a useless arm and has no vision or hearing on one side. He lived through his "foolproof" suicide. You might too.
Who will clean your blood off the carpet or scrape your brains from the ceiling? Commercial cleaning crews may refuse that job -- but someone has to do it. Who will have to cut you down from where you hanged yourself or identify your bloated body after you've drowned? Your mother? Your wife? Your son? The carefully worded "loving" suicide note is no help. Those who loved you will never completely recover. They'll feel regret and an unending pain. Suicide is contagious. Look around at your family. Look closely at that 4-year-old playing with his cars on the rug. Kill yourself tonight and he may do it 10 years from now.
You do have other choices. There are people who can help you through this crisis. Call a hotline. Call a friend. Call your minister or priest. Call a doctor or the hospital. Call the police. They will tell you that there's hope. Maybe you'll find it in the mail tomorrow. Or in a phone call this weekend. But what you're seeking could be just a minute, a day or a month away. You say you still don't want to be stopped? Still want to do it? Then I may see you in a psychiatric ward later. And we'll work with whatever you have left.
Written by: Renee T. Lucero; Reader's Digest June 1985
You've decided to do it. Life is impossible. Suicide is your way out. Fine -- but before you kill yourself, there are things you should know. I am a psychiatric nurse, and I see the results of suicide -- when it works and, more often, when it doesn't. Consider, before you act, these facts: Suicide is usually not successful. You think you know ways to guarantee it?
Ask the 25-year-old who tried to electrocute himself. He lived. But both his arms are gone. What about jumping? Ask John. He used to be intelligent with an engaging sense of humor. That was before he leaped from a building. Now he's brain-damaged and will always need care. He staggers and has seizures. He lives in a fog. Worst of all, he knows he used to be normal. What about pills? Ask the 12-year-old with extensive liver damage from an overdose. Have you ever seen anyone die of liver damage? You turn yellow. It's a hard way to go. What about a gun? Ask the 24-year-old who shot himself in the head. Now he drags one leg, has a useless arm and has no vision or hearing on one side. He lived through his "foolproof" suicide. You might too.
Who will clean your blood off the carpet or scrape your brains from the ceiling? Commercial cleaning crews may refuse that job -- but someone has to do it. Who will have to cut you down from where you hanged yourself or identify your bloated body after you've drowned? Your mother? Your wife? Your son? The carefully worded "loving" suicide note is no help. Those who loved you will never completely recover. They'll feel regret and an unending pain. Suicide is contagious. Look around at your family. Look closely at that 4-year-old playing with his cars on the rug. Kill yourself tonight and he may do it 10 years from now.
You do have other choices. There are people who can help you through this crisis. Call a hotline. Call a friend. Call your minister or priest. Call a doctor or the hospital. Call the police. They will tell you that there's hope. Maybe you'll find it in the mail tomorrow. Or in a phone call this weekend. But what you're seeking could be just a minute, a day or a month away. You say you still don't want to be stopped? Still want to do it? Then I may see you in a psychiatric ward later. And we'll work with whatever you have left.
Written by: Renee T. Lucero; Reader's Digest June 1985
hey Thanks soooooooooooo much for sending me this... whenever i feel like killing my self .. i will read this hope it will help me thanks!!!!!!!!
Lilly32: And you guys believe this OP !!!! He tried to kill himself some months ago also !!!!!!!!!!
And I said then and now ! Those who want to kill themselfs do not talk about it, mostover start a discussion about it !
This guy just want your pity.
Thats so pathetic of him.
I believe in commpassion and give people the benefit of the doubt til I find out otherwise.
I think some people nowadays have become so insenstive to others.I wonder if that could explain some of the problems on this site and why some people choose to leave this place.
Please follow the positive compassionate advice you are reading in this thread ... Please DO get help from as many sources as are available in your country, including a trusted friend who could sit with you while you are feeling low...
Be honest with yourself as to the real reason you feel unable to cope with your life. I know it sounds really difficult for you at the moment. You also sound like you care for your parents. I don't feel that the course of action that you propose is going to be of any help to them or the rest of your family. they will have to deal with your loss and at the same time continue coping with the financial situation.
I know it means you have to BE very strong to continue living in your current situation, but little by little, a day at the time, things will get better. Find the strength within you (God is within you) to keep going, one day at a time. Don't think weeks, months ahead, just one day at a time.
HEY PEOPLE PLEASE TELL GOD TO KILL ME IF HES STILL ALIVE
Do you have access to free health care in India? For the sake of yourself and the family you love it would be an idea to seek medical help,even if it does cost.
HEY PEOPLE PLEASE TELL GOD TO KILL ME IF HES STILL ALIVE
Life is tough , everyone has to go through challenging times, times when you think you are all alone, times when everything seems so difficult, when you just dont want to wake up in the morning. But Life is not about always having a good time. What makes us is how we deal with the bad times. We deal with it and time passes and eventually you realise that you are happier than you were before.
Is God alive? He is for me, I dont know about you, but believing in him can really help get through the bad times. And as for God killing you? He wont do that just because you want him to.
If you had a thread like this before , as people here have said, then you must be feeling this way a lot. You may need medical help. Depression and other forms of mental illness are just that: an illness. It affects the way you think,and therefore how you progress in your life, so get professional help . Hope you feel better soon.
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