WHY DO MOST BLACK PEOPLE FIND IT DIFFICULT CHATTING UP WHITE LADIES (26)

Can't say I like being chatted up by anyone no matter who they are, I don't like feeling pressurised by others and can find it a real turn off. Why not just try talking to the ladies as you would to anyone else and if you find them attractive then give a compliment that you mean well by - just a thought

So why would you even thik of saying something bad when am just trying to get other peoples opinion on the matter.Why would you not think of it from a rationlist point and give your opininon than going oh oh,he just wants us to say something bad so he can attacks.meaning you just have something bad to say.if thats the case,its a forum just say it mate!!!

So why would you even think of saying something bad when am just trying to get other peoples opinion on the matter(the first think that came to your mind was bad obviously).Why would you not think of it from a rationlist point and give your opininon than going oh oh,he just wants us to say something bad so he can attack us.meaning you just have something bad to say.if thats the case,its a forum just say it mate!!!

I didn't...Read my post. I don't have time to answer. I think you are wrong in parts concerning the brothers...Especially the last point about them (bruvers) settling for large women because it's the only way they feel wanted, loved etc....

Ask yourself one Q in the mean time...Why are many African women fully figured????? All the bruvers I know, like large women. I know loads of africans...(not 2nd-3rd generation)..And from different parts of the continent..

I know borthers we like them big but again,there is a difference betwwen a fully figured woman with a disfigured lady(again take no offense luck of better words).Yeah,but am telling from the point of view that they talk to me because they think i understand and point of correction i didnot say i find it hard to chat up women neither is it too easy.i have female freinds and i do have banter with pipo.I think some people when they replying to this they are telling me directly as if i find it really hard.but guys thanks for the time and its just vital never to ignore certain subjects..

Well i agree with some of what you have said but wherever you go peoplle from certain countries dont like certain people.for e.g scotish people dnt like the english and even some french people are hatede and even some people hate jews so i dnt agree with your statement and about the chip on the shoulder yes they might have that .But since you so well informed,whats your suggestion on how they used get rid of it.And on the baiss of chatting up thousands of whtie women i dnt agree because you cant jst walk round chatting anything you see jst to prove that its all inferioritiy complex but its abvout chatting up who you like and fansy.Are you french /british or irish.lol.And yes men from africa think are superior than ladies which is true coz thats how we brought up but on the basis of people from the south of the sahara refusing to mingle with the western countries,i beg to differ because they are many countries in the south and most of them were colonisied by britain hence there official language is english hence i dnt see how they can refuse to speak language of host nation!!!

Look outside the box...

It really has nothing to do with race/color/nationality or religion.
Its who you are as a person....
If you wish to use that as a tool because YOU feel it hard to date then so be it.

It sounds like you are categorizing people as a whole instead of seeing that it is a few that act this way. I think most of us don't even look at color or nationality. Those true to heart are the ones that only see inside of a person and not what they look like.



I have never met a person that had trouble talking to me. If they did, they never said anything.


I think that you may just be looking to start an argument, but maybe not. Maybe it is you who finds it difficult. Many people find it difficult to talk with others and it is a confidence issue, but that can be over come. People are people, not matter the gender. Just relax and concentrate on making friends...the rest will come in time.

Montana...maybe the bruvers can't butter up nubiles as well as honky's....JMO