justabum: Ever wonder why sometimes woman will flirt with you and then all of a sudden become cold or weird around you ? Is it because they wanted the man to ask them out (or make a move) and he didn’t, so they’re acting cold around him to compensate for the perceived rejection ? Do women actually FEEL rejected when man don’t ask them out or “make the move” ????? ……and do they realize how "destroyed" a man may feel when rejected for his effort (when he was so sure that she wanted to see him again)
becaue we live in bazaro world, women want you to take charge and ask, then after you get hooked they invade and take over everything from the sox you can wear to the kind of spuds at the dinner table, good luck making sense out of such an odd and upside down world.
Women do but some guys can't accept this as it would be deemed a threat to them. If they don't like independent women then they wouldn't like a woman that is direct. Silly, I know but the male ego is very fragile.
Nobody likes rejection, but women take it much more seriously. Many men don't care about rejection at all, they don't take no for answer, whereas women will get very insecure when rejected. Don't men themselves speak about the thrill of a 'hunt' after women? They can't be fearful of rejection, if they are 'hunters'!
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why thank you, because it is "dead" quiet for some time now....the years go by,,like I said "no one is home",,,just me.