Think I have some kind of bad vibe???? ( Archived) (5)

Okay so I've now been single again for 1 year, I broke it off with my ex 'cause I decided he's not who I want to bewith. I immediately got a stupid though enjoyable crush on a hot player type who was fab to fantisise about though soooo not a good bloke for me, so stayed away from that. Found it very difficult ot be attracted to another man during this time as I'm quite the on e man woman. Anyway, I had a couple of date about 8 months ago date 1) Guy spoke consistently about his ex wife, when I asked him if he'd go back to her if she asked he said yes....whilst on first date with me. Didn't see him again!
Date 2) Had a relaxed enjoyable time witha resonably attractive confident and chatty bloke, enjoyed his company though wasn't absolutely sure about him. Date 3) Same guy as date 2, had a great evening, fabulous meal and conversation, he seemed in a little bit of a hurry to leave the restaurantwalked me swiftly to my car, which I thought a little odd at the time....... then started kissing my face off, not in a gentlemanly and copping a bit of a feel. Not my idea of a good ending on a second date, so I lost interest.
Didn't date again until just recently, met a really neat bloke and thoroughly enjoyed spending time with him talking and drinking coffee. It was so cute he messaged me when I got home telling me how much he enjoyed meeting etc. Has sent a few generic messages since...perhaps I've tried to communicate too much, am out of practice withthese things. Anyway he doesn't seem that keen and I'm a little sad about that as its taken me all this time to even be attracted to someone he was the first and I was rather shocked he had that effect on me. Is it at all possible to know where I go wrong...have no idea if I show too much interest or perhaps not enough as I'd hate to seem too keen. Does anyone have any ideas, will be surprised if anyone actually manages to read all this to give me any ideas, however thanks in advance if you do.

Don't be dis-heartened we could date a lot of guys until we meet someone we click with and them us. The last date you had I'd say he's not that into you, don't think I am being nasty cause I'm not I met someone like that and the same thing happened, best advise I can give you move on and please don't give up. I really believe there is someone out there for you good luck

Thanks Curly, I really appreciate that....sometimes I need to be told what I already know but perhaps don't wishto admit! ;-) And don't worry I'm certainly not one to give up in a hurry.

"have no idea if I show too much interest or perhaps not enough as I'd hate to seem too keen."

Perhaps he feels exactly the same way .....

No harm in you asking him for a second date I think, then you will know one way or another if he is interested or not, and if not you can move on ..... NEXT .....

Best of luck .....