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I would imagine that going our own way would be individual rather than collective so I don't get the brainwashing reference.
Anyway I think that this was supposed to be just a fun thread. It sounds like you have been burned in the past so I certainly would not blame you for any bitterness you may have towards women who take a man for everything in a divorce/breakup situation. It has been known to happen to women also.