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jono7: i would hope that contributing to something one enjoys would not be exhausting...and that one would maintain balance in one's life as well...
what is she doing?
she as well, wants the best for her partner and herself, and puts her energy in service of the We.
i don't mean they're doing the same things. it's not a tit for tat.. each, with a defined role within the relationship contributes.
..emotional equity (not hostages)
There is never a true equality. The same as there is never a unconditional. It's a rose tinted myth. what is she doing?
she as well, wants the best for her partner and herself, and puts her energy in service of the We.
i don't mean they're doing the same things. it's not a tit for tat.. each, with a defined role within the relationship contributes.
..emotional equity (not hostages)
I agree that each should work for the best of the we. However, men and women tend to look for different things in a relationship.
The whole Men are from Mars scenario is supposed to show women that they shouldn't think the man "thinks" the same as she
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almera03: There is never a true equality. The same as there is never a unconditional. It's a rose tinted myth.
I agree that each should work for the best of the we. However, men and women tend to look for different things in a relationship.
The whole Men are from Mars scenario is supposed to show women that they shouldn't think the man "thinks" the same as she
I agree that each should work for the best of the we. However, men and women tend to look for different things in a relationship.
The whole Men are from Mars scenario is supposed to show women that they shouldn't think the man "thinks" the same as she
i don't believe in 'equality'. not in a relationship, not anywhere actually.. and i agree it's a myth.
i do believe in equity...fairness. balance.
and i know.... that it all depends on individual perceptions here...
it's not tit for tat. it's not measurable. it's perception.
and while it can't be measured...one can ask themselves if they are happy? if both folks are happy... i guess it ain't broke.
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folks can choose all kinds of things to believe to support their preferred beliefs.
sometimes it's hard to accept that everything in our lives, we have brought to ourselves.
sometimes just a change of perception will change reality.
said another way....
you get what you focus on. if you focus on, 'women only want money'...then that's who you will notice, and that's who you will draw to yourself.
place your focus somewhere else...change your perception...and perhaps your reality will change as well.