What would you think? (35)

Jan 22, 2007 7:03 PM CST What would you think?
superdougie11
superdougie11superdougie11Edmonton, Canada40 Threads 533 Posts
Let's say you have this friend. Let's say you have a girlfriend. Let's say that when the 2 met you felt like they possibley were looking at each other with love in their eye's. Now, let's say you told your girlfriend that you felt that your friend may have been looking at her with love in his eye's. Your girlfriend say's "I agree. I think he like's me as well". Now, your girlfriend know's that your friend possibly has feeling's for her and the next time they meet she run's up to your friend and give's him a big hug. She also hug's him when he is leaving. She hug's him knowing that he possibly has feeling's for her! What would you think? If any of this make's sense? I just can't help but feel like my girlfriend is possibly flirting with my friend.
Jan 22, 2007 7:23 PM CST What would you think?
jbhappie
jbhappiejbhappieToronto, Ontario Canada5 Posts
Well, I'm not quite sure dude. But it is possible that she is trying to get on your nerves. Personally I'd think nothing of it.
Jan 22, 2007 7:53 PM CST What would you think?
superdougie11
superdougie11superdougie11Edmonton, Canada40 Threads 533 Posts
Well the first time they met I noticed that they were being really friendly with each other. After my friend left I told her that I felt like he was checking her out and that it made me uncomfortable how they were toward's each other. I just think that if you tell someone you're uncomfortable with how they act around another person then, the last thing that person should be doing is running up and giving the other person a hug?
Jan 22, 2007 8:05 PM CST What would you think?
Honeydipped06
Honeydipped06Honeydipped0627 Threads 304 Posts
dougie, she knows the guy likes her, she is trying to make you jealous. and... she is trying to entice this friend of yours into thinking there is something more to it. with a women like that, be careful, sometimes they will go all the way, just to play head games and to make you jealous.

MM
Jan 22, 2007 8:20 PM CST What would you think?
wolfdogs1000
wolfdogs1000wolfdogs1000Vermilion, Alberta Canada26 Threads 496 Posts
Sounds like "Head Games" to me...
Jan 22, 2007 8:22 PM CST What would you think?
coldlakeprincess
coldlakeprincesscoldlakeprincessCold Lake, Alberta Canada34 Threads 226 Posts
Dougie babe watch for head cases honey she sounds like she might be a game girl and enjoys watching you stir...its not right but before you go jumping maybe try to talk to her find out what is going on and talk to your friend to....but if you are ready to call it off now do you really think you want to get serious with her??? All My Wuv Babe!!
Jan 22, 2007 8:29 PM CST What would you think?
superdougie11
superdougie11superdougie11Edmonton, Canada40 Threads 533 Posts
Well like I mentioned, this is just another thing to add to the list of problem's I've already had with this girl. We haven't even been seeing each other for a month and this is the 5th or 6th issue I've had with her.
Jan 22, 2007 8:31 PM CST What would you think?
coldlakeprincess
coldlakeprincesscoldlakeprincessCold Lake, Alberta Canada34 Threads 226 Posts
Dougie hun I think you are answering your question for yourself....blues Im sorry babe ...I hope you are not settling because you are worth a hell of alot more than this ...
Jan 22, 2007 8:39 PM CST What would you think?
superdougie11
superdougie11superdougie11Edmonton, Canada40 Threads 533 Posts
I just hate breaking up with people and I want to make sure that I am not just over reacting? I don't believe in walking away the first sign of trouble, but this isn't the first sign! I have to correct my last posting, I've been seeing her for almost 2 month's, not one.
Jan 22, 2007 8:44 PM CST What would you think?
coldlakeprincess
coldlakeprincesscoldlakeprincessCold Lake, Alberta Canada34 Threads 226 Posts
Its not fun breaking up with people I understand but what would you rather being with her and being miserable and always doubting just to avoid a break up??? and in 2 months to have that many problems all ready babe? I just want you to look out for yourself and dont settle Dougie your fantastic and if your gut is saying somethings not right then it probably isnt....this is one of those times I believe you have to think and follow with your heart and not your head...
Jan 22, 2007 8:52 PM CST What would you think?
superdougie11
superdougie11superdougie11Edmonton, Canada40 Threads 533 Posts
True enough!
Jan 22, 2007 8:52 PM CST What would you think?
artgurl0927
artgurl0927artgurl0927Heart of the Valley, Canada12 Threads 2,442 Posts
"When people show you who they are, believe them the first time" - Maya Angelou

Dougie I have been in this situation and there is no way I was hugging the friend. Maybe she likes the attention...maybe she likes you a bit jealous ... either way it spells games to me.

Just my opinion of course but this situation doesn't sound good enough for you. You deserve better.
Jan 22, 2007 8:55 PM CST What would you think?
Pucks
PucksPucksVernon, Canada107 Threads 3,326 Posts
Yup, what they all above said. Seems obvious to me. Dont think you need the drama man.
Jan 22, 2007 8:58 PM CST What would you think?
coldlakeprincess
coldlakeprincesscoldlakeprincessCold Lake, Alberta Canada34 Threads 226 Posts
HEy pucks wanna start some dramawink tongue rolling on the floor laughing kiss
Jan 22, 2007 9:17 PM CST What would you think?
Honeydipped06
Honeydipped06Honeydipped0627 Threads 304 Posts
dougie its better now to break up rather than a kid later, and a year of heart break. This relationship COULDNT have lasted. you did the right thing, let her cry, that is how we all learn from our mistakes. dont be fooled by tears.

MM
Jan 22, 2007 9:32 PM CST What would you think?
superdougie11
superdougie11superdougie11Edmonton, Canada40 Threads 533 Posts
WEll I did see alot of red flag's right from the beginning. Some of you know about them.
Jan 22, 2007 9:34 PM CST What would you think?
FatBrunette
FatBrunetteFatBrunetteLONDON, Canada13 Threads 395 Posts
Hey dougie...

is this the same lady .. the one thats depressed and havig problems with that???
by the souinds of it . you may have done the right thing..and it may be best that u did what u did..and move on to better things..

all relationships we learn from ..and this will just make you stronger..and same for her.. she willhopefully learn from her mistakes..and beable to use the good qualities she got from you in future relations.
Jan 22, 2007 9:42 PM CST What would you think?
foxyone1
foxyone1foxyone1Quesnel BC, British Columbia Canada50 Threads 1,772 Posts
Doug,,, it's all games on her part,, don't let the crying bugging ya,, are you ok
Jan 22, 2007 9:51 PM CST What would you think?
foxyone1
foxyone1foxyone1Quesnel BC, British Columbia Canada50 Threads 1,772 Posts
Doug,,, relax,,, both you and her will feel better tomorrow after you sleep,,, things are always better after you sleep,,, but our main concern is you,,, relax
Jan 22, 2007 9:59 PM CST What would you think?
mistifying137
mistifying137mistifying137Ottawa, Ontario Canada1 Posts
moping Sorry dude,but your girlfriend is definatly flirting with your guy friend!Sounds like you need to have a little chat with her or move on to someone who will be faithfull completly!wine
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